Need some advice

TheObelisk · 2018-12-31T17:12:50+00:00

Just do what you want to do, and don't forget that women are not what you thought they were. They aren't worth your time or money. Learn to be ok with being in your own company and focus on what you enjoy. Remember you're never missing out by not being with a woman.

RedMeatTrinket · 2018-12-31T17:25:59+00:00

It is hard because everything you've learned up to this point is wrong.

Start by becoming independent. Be able to do everything for yourself.

tobeavailiable · 2018-12-31T17:16:35+00:00

ok i'm going to take a swing here as i think i got you bro; you had onitis. i know i'm gonna get blasted for this being mgtow and what not but the best way to get over a oneitis is to develop a abundance mentality if reading mgtow content doesn't put you off ever dating again like it did for me. You effectively need to surround yourself with girls and realise you have options. While i might like my job if i can get another one i won't be so bummed out if i lose it but if it's the only one i can get i'm going to be super dependent on it and destroyed if i'm ever fired. While i'm not advocating for you to hop into another relationship simply knowing if girls find you attractive and having the option there if you so wish to pursue it helps immensely. this is from personal experience for the record.

cyclops88 · 2018-12-31T17:29:00+00:00

Don't let anyone define your well-being and happiness. It's up to you to point your life in the right direction. I know it sounds impossible, but you are more stronger and capable than you think. Be proud to be your own man, go your own way.

DangZagnut · 2018-12-31T17:00:46+00:00

Move on with what?

Texian_Fusilier · 2018-12-31T17:06:22+00:00

Well, what do you want to do? Which way is your way?

rookpook · 2018-12-31T17:23:01+00:00

I will work on myself and focus on me. Thanks

rookpook · 2018-12-31T17:12:54+00:00

I think I understand now

rooster-one4 · 2018-12-31T18:41:43+00:00

Men work best in life when they have a mission... Traditionally that mission has to protect and provide for a family, but that's been taken from us, so a lot of men struggle in finding a mission. It doesn't matter what it is, as long as it's you and you take it seriously

annonymous93 · 2018-12-31T18:49:52+00:00

As Cheesy and unhelpful as it is, time is needed. But in that time there’s ways to speed the process up. Binge on red pill content on YouTube. Get angry, get mad, and realize eventually that what we were brainwashed to buy is no longer being offered. At least earlier generations got something out of the shitty deal (home cleaner, cooker, someone to have kids with and raise them), but none of this is offered anymore. The only thing being offered is an enemy living in your house and making things harder, a financial and emotional drain, etc. What you thought was making you happy, and still think can, CANNOT. It takes a while for your emotions to catch up and accept that but if you keep trying to understand the dynamics and the deal layed out between men and women in this post modern era, you will see that acceptance and moving on to better yourself is the only way. You see, you’ve accepted it analytically, but the harder part is letting your heart accept it. Best of luck to you. Good luck and remember, GYOW.

rookpook · 2019-01-01T04:00:47+00:00

Thank you all for your thoughts..I'm really grateful and I've realised instead of making excuses I'm going GMOW..

Title	Need some advice
Author	rookpook
Upvotes	13
Comments	21
Date	December 31, 2018 4:59 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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