I started going red pill about a year ago and slowly veered toward MGTOW because the realizations I found in TRP made relationships unappealing and friends-with-benefits and one-night-stand situations are completely unfulfilling.

I'd considered posting this to TRP but they seem far, far too obsessed with pussy. I'm currently in my 30s, grew up on video games, and was never interested in sports. In my 20s I played a little intramural softball (base leagues when I was active duty).

I've seen a recurring theme here and moreso at TRP displaying how abysmally boring most women are, that they have no hobbies of their own, and generally adopt yours if/when they are into you.

My question is how to go about finding something for hobbies. Right now I study/go to school, read, work, and go to the gym. I've used meetup.com and coworkers to expose myself to things like rock climbing, hiking, camping- lots of outdoorsy active things. I've used dates to expose myself to more artistic things. The only things that have stuck are card games (poker and party games like Cards Against Humanity).

When I hear of acquaintances doing new things I check to see if there's room for more and check local listings for events and activities I haven't yet tried but nothing really interests me. I don't know how or where to find my passion.

Any advice would be appreciated.