So I went through a pretty bad break up about 2 years ago with my ex fiancé, and since have started dating a new woman. This time being careful to keep her at a distance and made it clear if we get serious I don’t want kids. And while it’s nice to have that companionship sometimes, the more I’m with her the more annoyed I’m getting. She’s bad with money, she works and is in college, but doesn’t take it seriously, and it’s getting to the point I have no free time, I work all week and it’s getting to where she expects me to be with her all weekend, and I’m starting to lose myself again. And to top it off her mom sends me a text this morning about a Christmas gift I could get her... a promise ring... helll noo... I’m starting to wonder if something is just wrong with me, like I’m not very happy when I’m single but when I’m with someone who wants to be with me I fear for my future, I see the guys I work with who are married with kids and they are miserable, or the guys who have lost it all from divorce. It seems either way if I want to be with someone I have to sacrifice myself and my future.