I already know that having these feelings & thoughts are wrong. I’m hanging with a friend who’s an absolute stud. 9/10. Guy just has all the traits women want in a man. Height, muscles, hair, wit.

I on the other hand am probably a 7.5 or so. I’m little taller than average, pretty muscular and overall intelligent.

When I’m around him it’s crazy. I spend a lot of time on my health and it still sucks. I get ignored most of the time. They are constantly approaching him, in ways you wouldn’t believe. They seem like thirsty dudes when they are with him.

It just destroys my self esteem. I know it shouldn’t matter but it’s hard. When that’s what you are judged on as a person most of the time, especially a guy. Anyone share these thoughts