Question about AWALT

Teflon0819 · 2016-06-02T04:08:53+00:00

There is a subset of women who will "settle" for a man that can offer nothing more than his loyalty and subservience, but only because they're convinced (whether perceived or factually) that they can't do any better, and because they've developed a sort of "abandonment complex" from being dumped so many times previously.

It's an offshoot of the "crazy cat lady", only instead of getting a bunch of cats, she "adopts" (as her pet) a "bottom tier" guy who no other woman would want and uses that fact as security against her abandonment complex.

FreeNClear32 · 2016-06-02T04:26:11+00:00

She probably thinks she can "fix" him

victor_knight · 2016-06-02T07:37:39+00:00

You need to understand that 99.99% of women will fuck the garbage man after 15 minutes of talking if he looked like Brad Pitt or Chris Hemsworth. Apart from that, we know many women are nuts and probably haven't even figured out how to put their panties on right until they are 25.

gundahir · 2016-06-02T05:29:25+00:00

Plenty of options to explain that behavior, to do it properly more details are required. He could be a loser, but an attractive one that gives her good dick or makes her tingle in several ways. A lot of them are attracted to problematic losers. Normal cock carousel story. This stops when she realizes she has to settle down and switches to beta bucks. That brings us to age. How old is she ? Often when they are young they go for the cock carousel with losers to settle with a beta bucks later. Or she is old, unable to rope a proper beta bux guy in anymore and thus reverts to fucking losers. How is she in the looks department ? Her looks and attitude might be too bad to chase men above her in value, because they go for hotter women. I know plenty of career women who are trash relationship material. They have a decent career but lack time, looks and attitude. A lot of guys seem to avoid them, plenty of them complaining that they cant score a proper guy out there.

FanofLemmy · 2016-06-02T03:57:33+00:00

If a woman isn't fucking around openly with Chads, you can be damn sure she's doing it behind closed doors. Cuckholdery is far more common than you think. And if she isn't doing either, you can be sure she's planning on it. She's just playing it safe because she would rather be with someone she hates than be alone.

GreatRedYeti · 2016-06-02T03:53:12+00:00

There could be powerful social forces at work. We all know a woman is at least considering trading in her husband for someone who meets her particular hypergamous needs better, but what would keep her from leaving her current husband?

My thought is that there could be another social influence like religion involved. If a woman believes in eternal punishment for breaking certain imposed social rules, she might be inclined to behave within those rules.

Maybe it's not religion. Maybe she gets some sort of feel-good response from "doing charity work" by dating down?

Whatever the reason, it would still boil down to her believing she is getting more value by dating that guy than others.

Brokemgtow · 2016-06-02T22:01:02+00:00

Also remember that all men offer something...........

That guy might be a loser to you but probably has amazing dick skills that this one particular woman appreciates, I have a very close friend that is a bottom feeder his awesome but has depression issues and problems keeping jobs.

I love him to death, and every time he gets a girlfriend he doesn't have much money to offer but he punishes them like no other in bed.

Sometimes lives off of them bitches and eats her children's food

Peace

Title	Question about AWALT
Author	HiPowerMax
Upvotes	13
Comments	9
Date	June 2, 2016 3:31 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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