Have to share this. I ran into her this weekend after 20 years. We went together only for 6 months and at the time things were going really well. We met online. Had a lot in common. Did a lot of things together. She was always mapping out the next few weekends for dinner or concert or going out with a group of friends. We had a lot of fun and there was never any games or BS. And then she fell off grid. All the sudden no calls or emails. Nothing. At first I was honestly worried she was in a car wreck. I eventually drove to her place and saw her car and saw that she was there so just then let it go. Though it bothered me anytime I thought about her or the situation. So flash forward we are randomly both in a store (I stopped at a place near my brothers for a bbq and not near my house) and walk by each other and recognize each other. We get to talking and catching up on our lives. She then rambles about her mom and I can tell she is going to ignore the elephant in the room. So I cut her off and asked what happened back then and why didn’t she have the courtesy to break up with me with some form of communication. She gives me a huge sob story about her anxiety issues and she wasn’t ready at the time for serious relationship and that was the best way for her to handle it. No Apology. No I’m really sorry that I did that. She was actually looking for me to be sympathetic and when I didn’t say a word, she quickly transitioned into how great her life is now and her now 2nd husband (Mr Cuck) is so supportive of her needs that he lets her take multiple vacations a year with her girlfriends and he stays home with their daughter. I cut her off again saying I had to go but I will leave her with something. I told her everyone has problems or issues but that doesn’t give you a free pass to be a jerk. I told her she took the easy way out and from what I can see that she still needs to grow up and take accountability for herself as a mom and wife. I ended with saying life is hard but most people deal with it and actually consider other people and to me it seems like she just runs away and then I walked away with a big ass grin. I can still see her open mouth,fly catching look of disbelief that I called her out.