A little background. Early 50’s recently divorced after 25 years. No infidelity, just both ready to move on. Well, she’s now rethinking, but it’s over for me.

Kids are grown so enjoying my new freedom. I’m spinning a few plates but experimenting along the way. I have one where I’m acting blue pill and a couple where I’m acting red pill. The difference is amazing!

It’s been a long time since I’ve dated and I’m dating a different pool of women (older) than most here. But, the experiment should still hold true. The red pill girls text me that they want to be the best fuck I’ve ever had and are super nice while the blue is so much more demanding, and doesn’t respond the same way to anything. Now recently I am starting to see the rationalized lying start in the blue. Small lies at this point, but still… AWALT is so very, very true.

You young guys be red and enjoy. I fell for the trap back in the day. Not bitter but glad I learned this stuff before it’s too late! Still more comfortable being blue but making good progress. Now that the experiment is coming to an end, net year I plan to be all red pill all the way. The challenge for me is that the male definition of love (per “The Rational Male”) puts me in blue pill territory. My struggle and depressing.

This forum has been great. Wish there were more guys my age here, but still amazing.