Hello guys, Just wanted to share with you all a bit of a heads up and a story of what can happen when you entertain women involved with paysites like Patreon and Onlyfans, in my case a 'famous' Instagram model.

As someone who has never been desperate to enter a relationship solely to have one, or to settle for someone, I focused on myself for a couple years, getting my own apartment, paying off my car, working a lot and saving a lot... however naturally you get bored, and you seek adventure of sorts. You end up kind of sitting on a bit of money, and you want to pull the trigger on something to disrupt the autonomy of your life.

For me, I decided to write to an IG model named Mary Madison Love back in September. I was intrigued by the fact she doesn't partake in adult films. She's a model from Hungary, and she seemed pretty classy. Has a great body too. So I decided to cut through the sea of Instagram and Twitter admirers, and I joined her onlyfans website for 15 bucks a month so I could message her directly and ask her out on a date. I had seen she was in London for a promotional event for a movie she participated in, and they were selling Meet and Greets to meet her and the other stars and be able to attend a party with them for 1k dollars. I offered her five grand to spend an evening together. I know what you're immediately thinking that is insane! But like I said, I had a lot saved up where it wasn't a huge dent out of my savings, and from my perspective, we pay 500 or 1000 bucks to meet our favorite bands or artists at concerts for 10 seconds and a photo, so what the hell? I rolled the dice thinking I could at least make a good impression and live a little.

Needless to say she accepted. We started writing each other through Onlyfans, and this is where the deception began. The reason I offered her what I did to meet was because previously I had found an ad of her online on an italian escort service. (Note: It is perfectly legal over there.) There wasn't much else online to suggest she was an escort, so I ended up asking her about it in time and she lied and said it was fake. So I gave her the benefit of the doubt knowing people post fake ads with pictures of famous models so it wasn't out of the question for that to be the case. I offered her what I did because I mistakenly thought she was genuinely a model and deserved more for her time. Once we agreed to the date, Mary started writing me flowery and rosy messages about wanting a change in her life, We talked everyday leading up to this date, and she did a lot and said a lot to convince me I was different and she genuinely liked and appreciated my interest in the real her, beyond her appearance. She seemed very genuine, but I was skeptical because I know women on sites like these, it's their job to entertain fans and make them feel special. I wanted to see how the date went.

The date in London went very well. We had coffee together, dinner later, we did end up connecting personally and physically even though I didn't push her for anything physical. I was looking at it more long term in potentially seeing her again and pursuing something real. It was obviously an insane longshot and extremely arrogant of me, but I shot my shot and asked her if she'd like to see me again, and... it strangely worked. She said she wanted to give me a chance. She expressed her hesitance to participate in adult films, and expressed how safe she is and how protective she is with her body. I was impressed. She gave me her number.

After the date immediately I befriended her agent and his wife who helped us set up the date in London. They were very supportive and adamant Mary genuinely liked me and wanted to pursue a relationship with me. But that I needed to be persistent and kind of win her over. After the success of the date in London, Mary expressed her desire to come to the USA for a trip to LA and Las Vegas, and asked for my help in booking the trip, on the basis we were pursuing something special. I wasn't going to give her big money again now that we were in my opinion establishing a relationship beyond model/fan, but I still decided to help her out and send her a grand for the trip. It was 4 months away at the time, so no huge deal for me financially. At this point she was talking about coming to my town and meeting me and my family, very serious stuff! She claimed I was the best part of her life. We talked about meeting a couple times throughout her trip and spending time together beyond a model/fan relationship, but things continued to get weird.

Her friend/agent approached me again asking for more money,talking about how Marys trip was more expensive than they thought. I began to sense BS because he said travel documents were costing her 800 dollars. As a traveler on the ESTA waiver program I looked it up and it says ESTA documents are 40 dollars, so I knew he was embellishing the price and trying to gouge me. I played stupid though and said I'd help Mary out more in person later when we met.

Mary also announced she was coming back to London for some modelling work in December, so I asked her if she was free to meet for a second date and she said she didn't have time because she was only in London for a couple days. Her agent wrote to me though and tried conning me out of 3 grand to "cheat the system" and clear her schedule for the day from the modelling gigs she was scheduled for. I knew he was BSing me because afterwards she kept advertising her free time and availability for "Meet and Greets" with fans on her Facebook page for her time in London, so I knew they weren't flying off the shelves. I declined his offer so he eventually ghosted me at this point.

I started digging for more dirt on her at this point, because I didn't know whether her agent was solely scamming me or if she was involved too, and I found some escort ads and reviews on Google that were in foreign languages that revealed she was actually a full time escort, and sells her companionship for a measly 200 bucks an hour. She buries any mention of it online so she can pass herself off as a model, and make more money to meet fans who don't know any better, just like me. She lied to me about the ad being fake, and told me what I wanted to hear about how safe and selective she is. She asked me to be patient with her in spite of this, and told me how the trip to LA had fallen through even after her agent claimed they had booked the trip already and it was all set. She offered me to come see her in Rome instead as she was there working a few weeks back.

I took this trip and accepted her offer, because she wasn't asking for any money, and I ended up bringing a log of our old conversations and my interactions with her agent to confront her on all the shadiness and find out what was going on in person. She ended up not recognizing any of the messages she sent me on Onlyfans. I discovered it was her agent catfishing me the entire time, seeing me as a mark after I offered her big money to meet me in London for the first time in October. The confusion came from the fact I'd text her here and there through her real number, while I was being catfished through Onlyfans.

For the last month or so, more people have been coming out to speak out on how they have also been scammed and misled about what Mary does for a living, and how she uses her fans obliviousness to gouge them out of money while laughing about it. Threads and forum posts keep being removed however that expose her shady business practices as a model, unfortunately allowing her to perpetuate this lifestyle on fans who don't know any better.

Moral of the story: The money I invested in her can be made back in short order, but if you follow her or any onlyfans or Instagram model for that matter, be wary. It's not worth it to invest with these women, or to feed their ego. I've seen so many posts lately about the stupidity of paying for photos and videos on subscription sites like hers. I'm lucky to be young enough to have learned a lesson from this and now will likely end up saving more money in the long run by being smart in who and what I invest my money in.

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