Lurker for many years, I've been absorbing mgtow-related content for years now. This is me feeling that I should try to add my stone to the building.

It is obviously well-known that the anger phase hits very quickly all men that face the truth. We all do. There's nothing wrong with going through it, just as long you go through it and end it. Residing within this does not help yourself.

And this is the main point of this post. Once you're exposed to the problems that modern men face, it is important to observe around you, and see what's new in what you see.

Thankfully, many testimonies are already here, the former generations have literally « taken the hit » for us, they're here to expose the red flags for us. This is truly a gift in your hands. Therefore, there is no necessity for you to look up some lost soul that does stupid shit again and again, and say « look ! It's right ! ». You know, we know, and if that person knew, they wouldn't be doing it.

The problem is that all this content that I'm referring to did not fall into your lap. You went after it. Purposefully or not, it doesn't matter. It will become a vicious circle, you keep reading up bad stuff(and looking for it!), and that shit is infuriating. So you never leave the anger phase, because there is always stuff to prove you wrong in this world.

The biblical proverb was just an opportunity for me to say that you will always obtain what you are looking for. If you're looking for stuff to feed your rage of the modern situation of men , you WILL find. You will even read between the fucking lines if you have to.

Going your Own Way also means that you let go of the shit that happened. It's hard, especially for the older men that lived very engaged lives and have child-support or possessions and other attachments left behind. But you, as a younger man, BLESSED to have been able to dodge a thousand bullets, just needs to look for what makes you grow, makes you more of a solid, unbreakable individual.

And there's some beauty to it : once you've given up looking for that shit, very quickly you become immune to it. Even if you DO stumble something that is related to you, it won't have that effect on you anymore. You are free to live your life in whatever way pleases you.

Don't fill yourself with the same poison that you evidently see as damaging to your life. Why not focus on things that bring real value now, knowing full-heartedly it will never come back to bite you in the ass ?

Seek...and you shall find.