Seeking advice

elbystump · 2019-06-07T04:06:09+00:00

work in the pharma industry

tinder and bumble

Great, hope you get an employee discount on STD medication. Sounds like you're gonna need it, sooner or later.

mneff5514 · 2019-06-07T03:30:05+00:00

lmao sounds like you got a little bit of some sex addiction going on. and if you just wanna be casual with the hoes let em know

TypicalLastBorn · 2019-06-07T06:51:44+00:00

You seem to be pumping and dumping correctly, I don't see what the issue is here.

RedPilledSimp · 2019-06-07T07:27:43+00:00

Keep swallowing some more Red, OP.

eduardkoopman · 2019-06-07T10:01:39+00:00

Over the years I’ve been fortunate to have bedded many women.

Fortunate? How is that being fortunate?
I get that at least being able to have some sex, over having to stay a virgin is better. But after somewhat regular sex, I saw/see and experienced deminishing returns.
Like when I was broke money wise; and got some extra/decent money it made a big difference. But then after that the extra money I got/earned didn't make much difference in my lide.

Eventually .. over a span of months they seem to want something more.

Ofcourse, and common.
Main reassons are imo.
Women benifit alot more for a commited relationship. Because women often get: free stuff, better lifestyle, money in an indirect way, protection (if shit goes down), security and support (if she needs help).
Plus it's a sign of high worth, status, for a woman. If she can get a man "of the market" to commit to her, when that men is desirable/attractive (which you must be if you have this amount of options).

I dunno, but the benifits for men are often less. Maybe the most benifts is there for the type of men that are unattractive looking, since they otherwise have to life a celibate life and myabe they long for sex which they then might be getting somewhat regularly (hopefully). But since you're not an unattractive men, probably the possible benifits for you are the lowest. In some ways I can only imagine going for commitment relationship, if you want to have children because then it's important for the child to grow up in an as stable as possible family.

Is there something wrong with me? Am I fucking too much?

Young, and healthy, and healthy lifestyle. Equals high libido. I have that same issue, of good libido because I'm healthy and have healthy lifestyle.
So there is nothing wrong with you. You are actually really healthy.
Now you let it out, through having alot of sex with alot of women. This has some risks to it. Maybe even high risks. It may also depenad a bit (the risks) on how good you are at judging the character/personality of women/people.

I have managed my libido, the past 4 years (after my last LTR ended) through masturbation, meditation, practising and taking joy in self-control excersises (also in other things), doing sport/gym to put my body in recovery mode and thus lowering libido/energy (temporairely). But I'm not 25 anymore, and at that time it would have been mopre difficult for me.
Another "managing your libido/sex want" option, that you might consider. And maybe also calculate if this is not cheaper money wise? (don't forget to calulate money for the saved time). Is to hire prostitue/escort for sex. I never have done this and it's something I can't get myself to to do. But it's an option, besides pump-dump style. Don't forget that you aren't paying for the sex (just), but you are paying for her to leave after the sex.

Boggob15 · 2019-06-07T08:48:27+00:00

There is some science behind this.

Men being the romantics that we are, are more prone to getting violated by the women who perceive the gestures as undeserving of affection. Meaning if you're not getting rewarded for doing those things you will cease to do them (simple enough).

For the question about being unfeeling towards them; It is (biologically), impossible for a man to become infatuated/ fall in love, when sex is presented before the bond (commitment) is set into play.

So in layman's terms, If you fuck too soon, you'll never fall in love period. Which is a good thing if you're not into commitments (don't want to form a ONEits now, do we?).

Title	Seeking advice
Author	tombradysmokescigs
Upvotes	10
Comments	16
Date	June 7, 2019 3:26 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/bxpv9p/seeking_advice/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/seeking-advice.451923 https://theredarchive.com/post/451923

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