I commented on one of Alexander Grace's YouTube videos and I think he Shadow banned me. Comments showing up when logged in but not logged off.
It seems as though this self proclaimed "relationship philosopher" doesn't like criticism of his work. Aka he's a grifter taking advantage of men for monitary gain. And getting called out on his BS is bad for business.
IMHO there's a huge issue with traditional monogamous relationships in this day and age that we can't really overcome. The issue is that they don't particularly benefit women. There's no practical, social, societal survival, legal, etc reason/ motivation for women to take part in this type of relationship.
This was my comment:
Alexander.
I'm sorry man. Maybe people are finding your videos helpful but honestly, these points you make should be obvious to anyone that's not autistic, has an IQ over 100, and has been in or observed a few relationships.
I think you're completely missing the point. The issue that's causing all of these relationship issues you talk about on your channel.
Men and women since the begining of time have had their own lane. Men had a role to play in their relationship and the larger society, women had their role in the family unit and place in society. Thing were balanced, men and women needed each other equally.
Since the breakdown of patriarchal society in the west, women entering the workforce, birth control, no fault divorce, welfare, family courts, child support, alimony and easy access to safe abortions, women no longer need men, ESPECIALLY, given the gynocentric leaning our society and courts have taken.
All these relationship problems exist today because relationships no longer make sense. A union of a man and a woman was always due to nature, instinct and necessity. Well we no longer live in a natural way and women no longer have a survival need for men. Even poor, needy, low quality women can jump from man to man her entire life, having kids and being protected and encouraged by society and the courts.
Theres practically no reason in this day and age for women to play this outdated antiquated game of being in a loving monogamous relationship. Only men want this due to our strong instinctual desire to spread our genes and not be cuckolded.
Sure some women, whether though instinct, principal or romantic desire would want a traditional relationship but feminist/ Marxist indoctrination from early childhood into adulthood brainwashes most women into ignoring or rejecting those desires.
My point is, all your advice basically feels like pickup artist, psychological tricks to manipulate women into being attracted to and wanting a long term relationship with you by playing into a womans genetic, evolutionary instincts in a world where women don't actually need men anymore.
If WW3 happens and society collapses into chaos. All these problems you talk about won't exist because women will need men again. We will have our traditional roles that are based off of nature, biology and survival necessity.
Until that happens, traditional relationships just don't make sense and you're not going to convince the majority of women to play nice and simply go along with it just because that's what we as men would prefer.
I'm sorry but I don't feel like a life of playing psychological mind games with your partner in order to manipulate her into sticking around and staying fathful is really worth the trouble.
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