So during the New Years, I went and hung out with this woman who we met downtown 3 years ago who I met from a mutual friend of mine then after 3 years she found me on Facebook and thought that she would be a potential to develop an intimate relationship. After she mentioned to me about her sob story how abusive her ex bf was to her over text, I allowed my emotions to lead me astray then proceed to schedule to meet up expecting that there is something between us. She told me she filed a restraining order against him and now I’m being used as an emotional tampon for her to cry on my shoulders. Today I have had it and told her over text when she ask “ Hey havent heard from you after a while.. are you ok?”, I replied “ NO “. Her response is “ .... “, then I said “ I’m just going to get straight to the point “ and she ask what is? I then told her “ I honestly don’t care about your pitiful story so message me ever again then proceed to block her.

After spending several days hearing her sob story and offering her advice, I felt I needed to get this off my chest because I’m sick and tired of being used as an emotional tampon like that. I dunno if I should feel guilty for doing what I did but I had enough with these woman and I’m not going to play white knight like I used to be doing in the past.