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[–]Tellnone257 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
In one aspect it could, I use mgtow to get rid of using females as validation.
But for his meaning, yeah that is a journey he has to travel alone. What he finds valuable, doesn't mean I find it valuable. We can point him in directions he might like, but that is all we can do.
[–]wolfviper695 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think that he can find ways to help people and other than females. For example he could try volunteering in soup kitchens, mentoring young men, coaching youth sports etc. The more lives he touches the more he could help them find purpose outside of marriage and romantic relationships.
[–]Sir_manalot4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sadly, nothing can actually solve it.
Lies and fantasies like religion, a loving wife, children, career and such can make men feel fulfilled...
...but all of these things are now being abused for $$$$$ to the point that men get fucked over hard for trying to find meaning in these things.
All that is left is hobbies and pleasure. Hence why many men are becoming video game, sex or drug addicted bums. Men are just finding distractions to pass the time or drowned out the emptiness now.
[–]kubicas1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
It did for me. That provider instinct was murdered in me. I did too much caring for my disabled parents, gfs, friends, strangers and never got anything from anyone. No helpful hand appeared in my life. Nobody cared for me etc. I had to work myself for everything. I even had to do my own upbringing while helping my parents (theyre deaf so I was burdened with translating since I was a kid) cause they fucking suck and I was let loose on my own plus others from family didnt help either.
I turned into a burned out cynic and misanthrope. I didnt ask to come to this world filled with lies but here I am. I focus on myself, my interests and hobbies, making money.
Gods and humans can go fuck themselves. I will never bow to another. I am very indifferent to others suffering and this world made me that way. No fucking woman or man is capable of softening my heart. You can't kill the dead. Words don't matter and actions do.
I miss my innocence and ignorance when I was a kid. I was blissfully happy then.
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[–]EL10RUB4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
self esteem comes from within, it cannot be truly found through any means of external validation
[–]fulgur30002 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
be talented at something.
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