So... friends?

ProgrammaticallyMeal · 2018-07-27T13:04:18+00:00

"Friend" was once a term carrying great value for everyone who was named so. Women have no notion of friendship, letting gynocentric society redefining words like "friend" has degraded the meaning of the word. "Facebook friend", "Friend with Benefit", etc. -- in a true friendship there can be no benefit besides being friends, as this is already the highest benefit a man can hope for in human relations. A man is truly lucky if he finds one or two or even three real friends in life, otherwise he is in most cases better off alone.

Red_pilledman · 2018-07-27T15:39:35+00:00

So emotional tampon and resource slave ....

derppoolthulu · 2018-07-27T17:10:15+00:00

Yup that's true, had a girl that loved to tell me all about how hard her life was, I would get so depressed I was nearly in tears by the time the conversations were over. Went to lunch with her so many times, paid cuz I felt bad. All the while she was getting railed by guys that were deadbeats or just the typical Chad.

Finally got tired of her shit and told her that nearly all of her misery could have been ended if she just didnt open her legs for every dude with a ten inch cock.

She stopped talking to me and then moved across the country to begin a new life. Never said goodbye but heard from a mutal friend that she had feeling for me (my money) and that telling her off like that is what made her move. All our mutal friends now wont speak to me because it was my fault.

The whole lot of them can die in a fire for all I care after that shit.

Megitgud · 2018-07-27T15:02:38+00:00

An idea as worthy as her. If you like being an emotional tampon and a beta orbiter then go ahead.

Now if you want friends to trust, share experiences, talk ideas, mutual hobbies, doing fun stuff and help you in your time of need then anything except wymyn to have as friends.

intentionally_vague · 2018-07-27T17:47:14+00:00

copied and pasted my response from that thread- lemme know what you think

If you only seek out a person to vent and complain whilst putting zero effort toward mutual enjoyment or 'fun', you aren't even a shitty friend, you're a user. Every personal relationship is dictated by effort and compromise. Immediately valuing one person's feelings or opinions higher than another's is going to erode one of the people. This leads to resentment.

Doesn't have much to do with sex, more to do with being self centered and having other options. Female mammals (of nearly every species) are rewarded for being 'picky' with their mates, whilst the males are punished for being 'picky' (imagine the danger of willingly leaving a suitable mate to go fight to the death and gain a new one. Injuries in the wild get animals and isolated men killed). Women will always (unless abused or indoctrinated) value the ideas and feelings of their mates less because they will always have another option- they don't have to compromise (this applies to all mammals, not just some humans).

That being said, listening and taking things slow are ideas men are fed throughout childhood that are supposed to find them a good partner (or make themselves a good partner). When men discover that kissing someone's ass doesn't make them respect you, they're humiliated and disillusioned. This leads to more resentment and dysfunction.

iManZul · 2018-07-27T19:16:35+00:00

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laptopdragon · 2018-07-28T03:38:53+00:00

close...

it's not "someone else", it's "everyone else".

TheDevilsAdvokaat · 2018-07-28T05:02:11+00:00

Don't forget "drive me around too, buy me food sometimes but "it's not a date" defend me if someone hurts me because "you're my friend!"

Boyfriend lite. When she gets all the benefits and you don't get sex..

robowriter · 2018-07-27T21:38:44+00:00

Pretty much it but if I have to deal with women I have no interest in I friendzone myself. But you set limits, such as no copping other guy's wifes or LTRs. No monkeybranching.

So it's not always a negative.

Atrand · 2018-07-27T14:07:13+00:00

ahh..yeah...that's kind of what a friend is

i think you guys misinterpreted what i meant. i didnt mean "a friend is there to fuck" i meant a friend is there for a person to talk to and lean on.

Title	So... friends?
Author	FlyingSexistPig
Upvotes	205
Comments	19
Date	July 27, 2018 12:31 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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