Kinda hurts to write this, this is now the second friend. Hes over 32. His girl is way younger.

Guy has an LTR since 5 years. They are not fucking since one year anymore and it's him, he lost all interest. The bullshit started slowly. Shes constantly horny and trying not to break up and loves the drama. They are both codependent, although he is more dependent on her.

He recently became envy of everyone who is connected to her in any way. He controls her phone to see if she goes to "X event" and if "Y" goes there, also her facebook and other shit. She told me this when i met her one time and she was drunk as fuck and tole me shes not allowed to talk to me - LOL.

So he didnt invite us over when he visited the city a couple times, kept it secret, avoided us. He didnt join the teamspeak anymore. And all the time he played it cool like he has just "a lot of things going on&work" before it became obvious that he is hiding something. He used to join the teamspeak/skype whenever he had time.

Before of that bullshit he was one of the best bros ever. I fucking hate it seriously. I would like not to care but it pisses me the fuck off. At this point i dont feel like waking him up because he literally pissed on the friendship.

Now he is in the deepest beta hole ever. Worse than his first girlfriend who was totally psycho and manipulated him crazy.

Now we thought ok we give him another chance and we invited him over to our sports event&bbq after party and he has no time because he "needs to help some female friend with something that day".

I hate that he gave up all his manhood and became this manipulated beta whiny backstabber that is barely able to have a conversation with anyone anymore. You never know if he is lying or hiding something because of the beta world he lives in where everyone wants to fuck his girlfriend while they have no sex at all.

Best part was when he was having drama with his LTR he called us and wanted support but no one did answer the call.

Most guys should not have a relation with women. It just makes them the worst version of themselves. I will avoid dudes like him for the future its just not worth it. Its hard to see how people change because they are codependent and become these beta guys. Im not obsessed with the alpha/beta theory but here its very fitting.