TL;DR: Co-worker is dating, uses dating apps dating single mothers. Now is dating a single mother, rants and raves about her. I dropped some RPs at him, and he still thinks she is a catch even though she has red flags and flaws; some men can't be helped.

/startrant/

So I have a co-worker, let's call him Elliot . . .he just got out of a 5 year relationSHIT with this girl, he been on the rebound courtesy of Tinder, Bumble, PoF, etc. How do I know this? Because he won't shut the f--k up about his matches and the amount of single mother profiles he's swiping right on or messaging.

Elliot's latest "catch" is another single mother, whose baby daddy bolted on her when she was giving birth at the hospital. On occasion the baby daddy will show up and do the father thing and then makes like an F-15 and jets. Now, of course, in my area, its just myself, another co-worker and Elliot so we can discuss issues. However, unfortunately, Elliot has been ranting and raving on how good looking she is, how she has her sh-t together, and how cool she is because she is a gamer, did martial arts, is a nurse and won't STFU.

Of course, he asked myself and my our co-worker what we thought. Of course, my other co-worker is married, and he conveyed, he dated single mothers, and it was iffy. Now when it came for my turn to give "feedback" I unloaded. I couldn't take it, I told him straight up: there is a reason why that mother is a single mothers! Single mothers are a no go-zone, I don't care how much sh-t they have together, and how good looking. I continued, do you want to take a chance with this lady and be a daddy to some one elses semen?! He kept saying how great she is, and how she is different. I just shut up because there was no reasoning with Elliot, and he's determined to see this through and how even if they break up, he will still be a part of the child's life. I cringed further, as he kept blabbering and just went about my work.

Right now he's on the phone going on with another co-worker on this fine "catch" and I can't help but think he doesn't know what is coming his way. I dropped huge RPs and was about to drop some MGTOW knowledge on him but then it dawned to me. . . .

There are some simpanzees you just can't help!

/endrant/