Perhaps it is just me but in the past idk 2-3 years when I choose to court and go out with a woman we can have a great first date and I am fortunate to have success overall in getting them in the bed in some degree night one alas come time for date two the flip is switched and you get the "my heads not there" or "something came up" lines. I ask if others are having this experience as I feel it's becoming the norm for ladies, like they just have no ability to make an actual decision. She can be getting pounded by Chad for all I know but I got mine so whateves; just curious if anyone else sees this.