MGTOW might offer some wisdom about women and the of the family courts and marriage, etc.

But ultimately, the problem is with men.

We need to shape the fuck up. We need to get our women under control.

You cannot allow a large portion of your tribe's women to fail at reproduction no matter what the reason is and no matter what the situation was. If they are not meeting the required 2.1+ birthrate and if they are not raising healthy, strong and good children, then your tribe will die off. It's as simple as that. There is no "lesson" or "example" from these females if your tribe ends up gone because of them. Either take control of your tribe's women or perish with them.

The love marriage-based society clearly isn't very reliable. So, we need to control our women and force them to marry good men for the sake of our survival and better functionality.