I know, this is Reddit. Lots of imposters, lurkers etc. It is what it is. People argue on here all day on what a true mgtow is. Even I got back and forth with what it really is.

One thing I can't front in though, is the one basic principle all mgtow types contains. And that's being able to make the decision that will benefit you and you only in the long run. Putting yourself first no matter how hard society and the earth's core itself trjes to make you feel kkkw you make a horrible mistake. Because of you're not doing it for the womyns you shouldn't be alive and happy and healthy.

I'm writing this because most posts I sww are usually 99 percent the "I learned my lesson after losing the shirt off my back" or "she took everything and after I got out of jail I realized how evil women were etc etc... And so on.

I give those men props for coming forward and helping guys like me. Because I'm that guy who actually took any and all advice. I was always putting experiences from friends and aquantances into perspective with what was happening in my situation. You might call this paranoid, but honestly it was simply practical and rational to a rational guy like myself.

Of course you have to be red pilled some how, and for me it happened pretty early, 7th grade. Girl I thought was the one, was scheming on me. All the red flags were there, her mom was divorced. Her older sister was dating a wannabe gangster thug, and she was always hanging out with them, she never wanted to do what I wanted, and was always trying to lead. That summer I learned real quick, you're either the mark or you're the one doing the marking.

I stopped talking to her even though in my head she looked like the girl I wanted to spend eternity with. After that I went into high school sports and saw how women reacted to those of us who had "clout" or where the cool jocks. From there I had girls here and there but always ended it with them.

Junior year of high school one girl I was with (she played softball) from another high school cheated on me with her neighbor (we lived in different school districts). I remember calling her the minute I found out, and dead pan, not even asking her what happened, saying we were done (she ended up getting pregnant from the same guy a few months later so I heard). She sounded speechless on the other line. Another bullet dodged.

In college I went vegan/hippy for a while and tried to get serious with one girl who took a liking to me. All the red flags were there with this one too. She smoked cigarettes, she didn't have any actual friends bedsides other guys, and she was always getting stressed out about any little thing. Not sure why I tried to go the nice guy route for this girl when the asshole give a fuck route was always getting me results. But after she spazzed out for the tenth time I tried to nicely break up with her. Which probably saved me in the long run since, years later of actually understanding what happened, she was a bi polar psycho who took pity on me.

After that, I found the pua world and spent a few years getting into a woman's psyche. Learned alot but the entire pua world became infiltrated by snakes and con artists trying to sell boot camps and programs to cucked men. One friend of mine I met while sarging paid 4k for a sarging program go out with a "pua guru" for 4 days. I was literally the only among everyone I associated with who thought bootcamps were a rip off. Was it me or was I just surrounded by a bunch of desperate men? Years later most of these guy ended up getting married and divorce raped. So I guessed right, they were all idiots.

I kept going, using the pick-up skills I'd acquired from going out every night to find hotties, and eventually landed a girl that ended up in 2 year relationship. Why it lasted so long you ask, compared to all the others I'd been in? She was an immigrant not yet tarnished by American cunt ways. By the time I stopped talking to her though she had been about to get her citizenship and was very much in tune to what American women were up to.

With this particular girl though, I remember asking myself if I wanted to settle down with her for good. Get her pregnant and start a family etc. I wasn't making any money back then and she knew it, she was cool with it. But she was still a brat who acted like a 12 year old when she didn't get her way. I realized deep down that this was going to be the way she would always be. Except she'd keep getting older, skin wrinkled, pussy looser. I chilled out for a while. Started only hanging with her on weekends. After almost two years the sex gets old. Going out on romantic dinners gets old. Cooking for each other gets old. I pretty much knew my answer, they didn't want to spend the rest of my life with this bitch.

I was pretty done with it, but the straw that broke the camels back was when I didn't call her to hang out one Sunday because I was running some errands. She calls, I pick up and she starts to yell at me before I get a word in. Then she just hangs up on me. I laughed ( was sort of shocked and mad at the same time because I knew she wanted me to react to this), and then decided at that moment, to ghost her.

Remember, all I knew at this time was pua pick up bullshit. But back then pick up was the only way you could get red pilled. It was all about reading and knowing your worth. No one talks to me that way. Even if you're letting me deep throat you.

So I ghosted her. She tried calling back a few hours later. Then emails, and leaving voice messages. I'll never know what they said because I deleted them all.

There would be some days where I wondered if what I did was cruel and evil. But then I'd snap out of it and be back in the moment. I kept dating after that. Dating apps started being all the rage. Then it got to the point where I said fuck this.

I stopped going out, just focused on work. A friend at work asked me if I was dating anyone and I said I was taking a break from women. He then asked if I was mgtow. I had no what he was saying. Then I googled it that same night.

Years later. Here I am. I'd been lost in the fog. But my logic and reason had never led me astray. No matter all the women I'd been with. Btw, women are all the same. I'd been with old and young and American and immigrant, different colors, and upbringings. They're all the fucking same. It's like fucking an NPC. I think back on it and it's pretty hard to differentiate them other than how they looked and how they kept their pussy.

No matter all these cunts I'd been with. It was always the same. What haven't I done for you lately that you should get mad about... And they all thought they had that right to act that way because they were giving me pussy.

I'm not gonna front. I'm proud of myself for never laying down and letting these cunts try to fuck me over. Most men are mgtow because they've been fucked every which way. There was always a part of me that was ready to call bullshit any time they'd do something I wasn't ok with.

I got lucky. Most men in here haven't been lucky. This might sound like gloating or trying to rub it in. So be it. I'm mgtow because I want to be. It's in my nature to never let a cunt try and play me.

I've seen men meaner than me go down without a fight by some 5ft in heels cunt. Lose everything from their dignity to their home/car/dog.

That was never me. What's my secret? Learn from the mistakes of others. Always be willing to observe and listen to your gut. Always listen to your gut. And if you forgot how to. Learn