Tell Me If I’m Just Overreacting Please

21 points28 commentssubmitted by WhyMe8675309 to r/depressed

So, as usual, my wife decides she can’t do anything for herself. She’s woken me up now three times to get her a glass of water. It’s just so disrespectful. It would be one thing if this was a rare occurrence, but it’s pretty much a daily thing and it’s literally everything. Get me this, bring me that, do this for me, all day everyday. I’m so goddamn tired of being her fucking mommy!!

Of course, when I tell her how shitty she is being now I’m “ruining” things. I guess she means I’m ruining shit for her. Gotta give the spoiled ass brat what she wants, I suppose.

She always says shit like “you can say no” and then when I fuckin do she goes all college boyfriend trying to pressure his girlfriend into sex on me and starts guilt tripping me and whining and shit.

I don’t know what form of abuse this is, but it’s definitely something. And then no matter what my reaction is it’s always the problem. As if I don’t have a right to be angry or irritated with her. It’s always me “overreacting” instead of her being a spoiled entitled asshole.

I don’t have a friend in the world to talk to about this stuff. Obviously, I can’t talk to my wife about it. She always deflects and turns it around on me. It feels odd to be this hurt by something that seems so small, but it just makes me feel like she’s only here because I do all this shit for her that most folks wouldn’t.