So, as usual, my wife decides she can’t do anything for herself. She’s woken me up now three times to get her a glass of water. It’s just so disrespectful. It would be one thing if this was a rare occurrence, but it’s pretty much a daily thing and it’s literally everything. Get me this, bring me that, do this for me, all day everyday. I’m so goddamn tired of being her fucking mommy!!
Of course, when I tell her how shitty she is being now I’m “ruining” things. I guess she means I’m ruining shit for her. Gotta give the spoiled ass brat what she wants, I suppose.
She always says shit like “you can say no” and then when I fuckin do she goes all college boyfriend trying to pressure his girlfriend into sex on me and starts guilt tripping me and whining and shit.
I don’t know what form of abuse this is, but it’s definitely something. And then no matter what my reaction is it’s always the problem. As if I don’t have a right to be angry or irritated with her. It’s always me “overreacting” instead of her being a spoiled entitled asshole.
I don’t have a friend in the world to talk to about this stuff. Obviously, I can’t talk to my wife about it. She always deflects and turns it around on me. It feels odd to be this hurt by something that seems so small, but it just makes me feel like she’s only here because I do all this shit for her that most folks wouldn’t.
[–]Anonymoose_wrex7 points8 points9 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Yup, they think they are marrying a partner and end up being a babysitter for a spoiled child in an adults body.
Then all these "women" wonder where all the good men are... they are off doing things more fulfilling than taking care of horrible "women".
That dude needs to at least not sleep in the same bed as her. Proper sleep is important and if someone is not allowing you to get it they are killing you slowly.
Moreover, he needs to set some boundaries or gtfo before the resentment he is building up explodes and puts him, and possibly her, in a world of hurt.
[–]monkensteinxstupido2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
This. So much this. I have yet to see a relationship that doesn't devolve into the man managing a power mad adult toddler.
[–]KazuyaAmon2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
as soon as you get married you're just setting yourself up failure
[–]deadBeefCafe20142 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
More aware than most men, and that shit is sad. I hope they don’t have children together.
[–]DangZagnut1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Sad, but that's reality.