It's simple economics. Supply and Demand. We've all forgotten. Make women experience scarcity of getting no messages or replies inspite of trying for a month, and their heads will finally be pulled out of their asses. It's the same forces that changed us all from being disgusted at the sight of a fat woman to begging them for sex because they're the only option we have. We bow down and worship. We throw ourselves at them constantly. In truth men are to blame, but that's good news because it means we have the power to fix it too. If we all collective stop spamming, so women don't have near endless options. Then everything changes. As we become more scarce we become more valuable and they will appreciate us more. By making them be alone beyond their control it puts pressure on them to become better people.

https://www.quora.com/How-many-messages-does-the-average-attractive-female-get-daily-on-OkCupid