My gf had an almost ffm threesome in her past I told her if I was single I probably would try one, she said now that shes with someone she can trust (me) she would like one. Im going to make some points on why this admission pissed me off and still does.

  1. She wants a ffm threesome and the fact that its a girl and not a man doesnt make me feel any better about it. Its weird how she acknowledges that if she asked for mfm threesome that be like fucked up like shes kind of saying im not enough and wants another dude but asking for another girl with us is fine?

  2. Its just a fantasy. Ok this im really tired of hearing this because a fantasy is a blanket term and is still an omission of something desired. It doesnt have to happen to offend someone the desire alone shows the persons intentions. If I told my gf I fantasize about smothering babies would she want to have kids with me? No. Now with my gf telling me she wants sex with another person but only if your cool with it should I trust her fidelity with just me in a marriage for many years? No. The Implication is still there and implications create doubt so your still inderectly creating doubt within a relationship.

  3. Its just sex. This is amazing because if sex was just sex people wouldnt get divorced over another partner banging a stranger. Do people get divorced if the husband or wife attends a co workers barbeque? No. Do people get divorced if the husband or wife performs oral sex on a co workers genitals? Yes. Sex isnt meaningless especially in a relationship.

  4. I make jokes about stacked women so that means im planning to cheat? She says she might want a ffm threesome and that means nothing? Oh wait its just a fantasy right? Shes also come to me in near tears about a dream where I cheated on her but is fine if its a theesome?

  5. "I dont really want one I couldnt handle seeing you with another woman". Than why bring it up? Is that supposed to make me feel better? I could say your mothers a worthless nagging bitch but I dont really feel that way I was just angry when I said that. Does that take it back? No.

  6. If sex in her eyes is meaningless so is marriage. The whole point of marriage is a union between two people its things shared between a couple like love and intimacy that isnt given to anyone else. But in her mind lets just cut out the sex between just us part because thats boring having sex with one person your whole life is boring. Well than what differentiates us between being married and not married? Is it because we love each other? I love my mom does that mean im married to my mom too? You see what happend when you start cherry picking things? You start contorting traditional values like marriage until they become absolutely worthless.

  7. The cuck principle. On some level your being cucked even if its a girl your gf or wife desires. She wants something that isnt you that you cant give that fresh new person will bring.