There was a period where I have paid for Tinder Gold in order to score dates with the hope of finding someone to fuck and maybe even get into a relationship with, it was like half a year ago.

I had sorted through a couple of girls who just didn't treat me with the same respect, like one that I went with a date with but apparently "I wasn't open enough, and she needs physical affection", mind you, she was fat and not good looking at all, an obvious slut, but hey, at least it was a funny evening, we knew it wasn't going anywhere.

After some weeks she started messaging me again sending me "hot" pictures of her (oh god she looked so ugly) and she flipped the moment I didn't compliment her telling her she looks hot, I told her the truth, that I didn't find that photo appealing or even good, my god that was weird.

2 months later she sends me a text out of nowhere saying "Happy holiday, <My Name>", I told her "You too, what do you want?" and she went mental again for not being "respectful", Blocked.

Additional to her, I've started talking with more girls, getting ghosted throughout the way, I just don't know how to play it cool with them, or rather, I don't play cool on purpose to see how they react, most of them just ghost if you're not playing their games, or block you.

Anyway, cutting to the point, Today marked the 3rd time I was "re-approached" by those who have ghosted/disappeared, today, half a year later, I get a "Hey" from someone who ghosted me after giving me her number and disappeared very soon after.

Each and every time, they tried this with different attitude, but I know that there's nothing in it for me, what can they really give me? sex? more mindfuck games? make me feel like a sub-human once again?

I took this sub advice each and every time, replied with the ultimate "BEGONE THOT" and blocked.

They will never learn, will they?