Do you guys feel that when you decide to just go your own way there is usually trappings that come with it ! Example..you just sitting at your local coffee place enjoying your coffee or tea minding your own business and soon some broad or someone will just bother you and ruin your peace for no reason esp chicks....this has happened to me several times to a point I am questioning how many sick souls are out there.. I am minding my business why trap me to say or do something to you ? I am dodging these social land mines