FIRST off....overwhelmingly, the people who do the most slut shaming is....women....and im not even refering to a woman shaming another woman.....I mean, an individual woman shaming herself (in a sort of a way). Women bend over backwards to not feel like sluts. "Im not theat kind of woman" "what kind of girl do you think I am?". Think, how far out of their way women will go to not appear interested in a man they deem unattractive? They will actively go cold or even rude....just to avoid the appearance of a chance that they are interested in a low status male, even if he isnt flirting. Then they will convince themselves that they werent being cold.

2nd....there is a legit time and place for slut shaming....While I think women should be allowed to be promiscuous if they want....they shouldnt be allowed to be reckless with regards to STD's, pregnancy, and cheating on promises of monogamy. Calling women out for these things should be acceptable....STD's are rampant, there are so many terminated pregnancies, so many men raising others babies, etc.....We should VERY much be allowed to shame these things. I like to say, A slut is a women who acts with disregards to sexual consequences. Promiscuous, one thing...slut....thats another.