Ex filed for divorce, married an unemployed guy who lived on my child support and her welfare bennies for over five years before getting a job. I would have never left her and was trying to get our family into a home and into financial stability. She caught the feminist bug and "Didn't want to be JUST a mom". But she did want to go on welfare and hose me for support and get a bullshit part time job so she can pretend to be "Not just a mom". Lost my kids along with 45% of my income and she continues to put on weight. She was obsessed with disneyland, and although I would go and pretend to like it. It was literally an every other weekend thing with her going there for five years. But I would still go. I couldn't get her to go fishing ever and the few times she did go she bitched the whole time or pretended to be sick so we would leave early. Never once got such at Disneyland though.

So she found this guy. I pay him to be "The man who stepped up" and I get fucked out of custody because the state profits immensely off of me.

Despite the financial loss, its worth the payments as long as my kids are taken care of and I don't have to pretend to want to sleep with an over weight woman with a giant Fupa.

He's all about it.

My new friend is 19, and despite the general life fuckery I have to put up with...sometimes it isn't so bad. I've been back and forth with work as a train conductor and work in a bar, so life since divorce has been girlfriends and FWBs just like this.

Never going back to marriage.

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