If a man can't get laid or if a relationship falls apart, I hear very often that it's all the men's fault. In fact, among PUA/TRP circles it is commonly advised that a man has FULL control over the interaction and if it fails it's all on him ... is that true? Do men really have this much power? I couldn't imagine living like this to be honest. One would always need to check one's every interaction. It's interesting, are relationships with women even real? Or just one big acting show? And if the man can't keep up the act, it's over? I never hear anyone asking for the woman's part in a failed relationship. Part of me thinks that some men are just bad at playing the game, the other part of me thinks that the game is simply rigged. Another part of me thinks yet again the game is not even worth playing at all. Normal friendships with people seem a lot more humane and rational. Frankly, dating seems rather inhuman.