My once fat girlfriend is now a btch

5,953 points584 commentssubmitted by olracmij to r/confessionsvirgin becomes a slut3

She was fat before she became my girlfriend. We were working in the same workplace. She was not popular, shy type, the kind of girl who you will not notice unless you know her more. I courted her because I learned that we had a lot in common, especially the online games we play and the books we read.

Our relationship was going smooth, she was a virgin and I was her first even though we are now in our late 20s. We had a happy relationship, with no major problems. But after a while, i noticed that she is getting heavier. I know it because she loves it when I carry her on my back. I never told her this directly because I did not want to upset her, but I tried to convince her to eat less and go with me whenever I jog or just walk on the park. Told her itll be fun.

She told me that she knows what I was doing-- that I am trying to prevent her from getting even fatter. But she added that others' opinion doesn't matter and she only cares about mine. In response, I said that I was only worried about her health (she was always tired). This seemed to work and she started going walking and jogging with me. Our dates became walking and biking in the park from our used to eating out in a fastfood restaurant.

Her weight became normal after months of our healthy routine. She's more active this time, and a lot more attractive. She also got a job offer in a different company, which is a once in a lifetime opportunity-- the salary is a lot higher than her present work.

In effect of her slimming down, it seems that more guys notice her this time. Every now and then I catch her reading messages from a random guy from her new work. I asked her about it, and she told me that it was nothing, and those guys are just looking for a "victim" especially the newcomers.

Until recently I learned that she is their new "victim" and she is having sex with some of her officemates. Yes, not only one, but many.

My suspicion grew and I tried to learn a lot about her to "hack" her facebook account by supplying answers to her secret questions. After reading her messages, I learned that one of her officemates lives in a condo near their workplace, and that they will go there every afternoon break to have a quickie. The messages goes something like this-- "Quickie time? I hope you're wearing the lingerie I bought you". Other guys she had sex after drinking on their "team building". Heck they are even having sex on the public restroom. She is now a total bitch.

I'm thinking maybe now she is enjoying the attention that guys give to her which she did not feel before. But regardless I'm still breaking up with her tonight.

Now I just wish that she becomes fat again and think of the guy who accepted and transformed her when she was once fat.

Update: I received a text from her saying "I'm sorry". I think she knows I opened her facebook. Now I'm having the urge of just fcking upload screenshots of her conversations.

Update: It's 9pm in our time zone and looks like she won't come at my place tonight, even though I told her we had to talk. God only knows whose place she will end up to. I calmed down a bit and decided not to upload her messages anymore, but I had them all saved. I will also be sending them to her sister after this edit, apparently her sister knows something is wrong. I was pretty close to her family, so I guess they should know. I finished gathering her things at my apartment and gave her the week to collect them or else I will throw them all away. I also filed leave for the week and booked ticket to go somewhere else. She has my keys so she can collect her things anytime. Will be telling the guard not to let anyone except her to come inside the building and to collect the keys after she leaves. And yes, I will surely be getting tested. And yes, she will be getting fat again, so if she is reading this enjoy your spotlight moment.

P.S To those saying that I "transformed' her is a bit much, maybe you're right. It was her choice to slim down, I just convinced her to do it. I just still can't think why she did it. I thought everything was okay. I guess it was the timing-- her getting more attractive, new environment away from me, freedom, and attention she got which is a hell of a drug.

P.P.S In my defense, I got suspicious because aside from the messages, the way she dressed changed a lot. Don't get me wrong, I was genuinely happy she can now wear the clothes that can't fit her before. She looked good. And I was happy she was happy. But it got sexier and sexier. No, I did not prevent her from wearing anything because I don't want to be that kind of boyfriend. But I remember one day before we left for work I jokingly said "Be careful other guys might get a different idea". I guess they really got the idea.

Sorry I'm not a native English speaker but I tried my best.