I'm supposed to go on a date with this girl I met online. On first dates I never wanna spend more than 20 bucks overall (me+her), in case she is the type that doesn't offer to pay. I told her let's go out for drinks. Then she recommended a restaurant. I told her oh I just wanted to go for drinks this time.. but I guess if they have a bar that's ok. Then she said she might eat too.. "if that's allowed." The fact that she used this phrase... I don't know if she means "if you will pay for it" or just "I will get food and pay for it and you can only have drinks."

There is no way I will pay for this bitch's plate. It already got awkward enough talking about this to this extent so I don't know how I would possibly let her know that I won't pay for it without her cancelling on me altogether. But if we go there should I tell the waiter to split the bill?