This is a throw away account.

Short version: Dated an "ex lesbian" who craved "masculine energy". Got dumped and excommunicated the moment she found out she was pregnant. Then through social media discovered she's back to being a lesbian. What is the term for what has happened to me here? Or what she is/has done. Really curious.

Long version: About a year ago I jumped into a relationship with a single mother of one child, who seemed to be a nice enough girl. Extremely feminine, very agreeable, easy to spend time with and very cock hungry. Winning combo right? Hah.

Her history is she dated this guy who allegedly took off when he found out she first fell pregnant, and never tried to make contact or see his kid. She showed me pictures and he looked like a degenerate so I took it as an honest account.

She then found comfort for the next 5-6 years or so by dating women. The bull-dikey types with the bad hair, piercings and all that. She claimed these years were extremely miserable for her, where she experienced intense depression, fluxuated weight, and secretly craved "male energy" in her own words.

So things are going great until one day about 3 months in she says she's forgotten her birth control for a couple of days in a row. She breaks this news to me visibly shaken, and on the brink of tears. I tried to be as calm and positive as I could be, and have a conversation about our options and what they would all mean long-term but she wouldn't hear any of it. Instead she began to take everything I said however well intentioned, as malicious.

This went on for a few days before she finally declared she'd be having the baby, and she's prepared to do it on her own, and she never wants to see me again. And just like that I'm excommunicated entirely, with no way to contact her and a baby on the way.

I then later find out through a friend's social media who isn't blocked by her, that she's back to being a lesbian again, and more recently I see the images of my baby girl and their happy little same sex family.

I don't care about the relationship not working out, I don't sit around boo-hooing and I learned a long time ago never to get too attached and always expect the worst so no loss there. The idea though of my baby girl growing up with this psychopath though alarms me greatly, and I am proceeding through mediation and court if need be to make sure I can help raise her in whatever capacity I can.

I'm dieing to know though, is there a term for what has happened to me here? Or a term for this kind of behaviour from a women? It really seems like the whole relationship was just a ploy to get a free baby for her and her lesbian partner.

Anyway, thanks for letting me share this here and hearing my story if you read this far. I'll appreciate any and all input.