you cannot simultaneously retain your cake and eat it too

Docbear64 · 2018-10-27T15:22:13+00:00

That's what all women want they have absolutely 0 emotional control so they want you to value and love them as intensely or more intensely that a daddy but then when she wants to have a girls night out and have drinks with the girls she wants to do so without feeling guilt ...except she also likes the exciting taboo nature of sneaking around so she wants you to text her at the same exact time when she's making out with or blowing another dude and then she wants to come home and lay in your arms and know that you couldn't love her anymore if you tried.

Women are driven by their emotions and yet also driven by a need to feel provided for and protected ... It's almost impossible for a woman to chase her emotions and still find a guy who will comfort and protect her.

It's counter to how we're wired. We usually only want to provide and protect those who we feel invested into and part of that investment is usually a sense of loyalty.

So basically she wants a guy who is programmed like a normal guy except for when she wants to forget about him and go about her business except she still wants him to care but not to be so invested that he stops her .

TLDR; Women want infinite love without respecting any one elses boundaries or embracing any responsibilities that come with love

deathtocontrollers · 2018-10-27T15:05:18+00:00

I want a real man but at the same time, I don't want him to be a real man! And we gave these "people", rights... Yeah, just send her to a fundamentalist Islam society. I'm sure, she'll find her man, there. LMAO.

woodquest · 2018-10-27T15:44:26+00:00

Alpha fuck beta bucks in the same guy oh yeah don't they all want that ?!

No matter he'd have to be totally cognitively dissonant.

And that's why they can't have nice things!

Global_MGTOW · 2018-10-27T20:15:58+00:00

Women literally want it all. They want a man who looks/smells good just for sex, another man who they can gossip with and go shopping (a gay best friend), a man who she can rely on to fix electronics, a man who pays her bills, a man who is good at fixing things.

If you're not the guy who she can turn to for sex, guess what that means?

Aneurism1 · 2018-10-27T15:24:49+00:00

Even if they saw how contradictory and illogical their purported wants are, they won't ever admit it.

DavidShekelburg · 2018-10-27T23:06:55+00:00

I just want a guy I can fall in love with and never be official and do whatever I want.

So put up a poster of a celebrity.

pollonutria · 2018-10-27T16:39:47+00:00

They just dont want be responsible of their acts, the fact is that always you have to seduce them in order to let her have the option to say that wasn't her fault.

freezingsama · 2018-10-27T19:15:50+00:00

When it's second nature to them of course it doesn't make sense to us.

NoThirst · 2018-10-28T01:19:42+00:00

...she doesn't care that it "makes no sense". She only cares that you are on the other end of the conversation validating her psychoses.

magx01 · 2018-10-28T02:47:11+00:00

Literally everything with them is seen/thought/heard/reacted to the lens of their (oh so fragile) ego. They constantly have to feel like they are super important and they are always, always anxious because they need that constant affirmation. It's exhausting.

MrFreezeTheChef · 2018-10-28T05:05:22+00:00

She literally wants a man to be a lost soul over her

Morphs_ · 2018-10-28T07:16:09+00:00

It means she wants validation from an alpha who is extremely jealous, but at the same time she has been victorious by 'training' him to be a beta so she has reasons to hop on the cc.

mangosuace · 2018-10-28T03:24:25+00:00

Bwahaha, I’ve been hearing my neighbor through the walls bickering with his long distance gf late into the night about this shit. AWALT

3slicetoaster · 2018-10-27T18:28:14+00:00

not all women are like that, but every woman i've ever got to know well wants that on some layer. it's just human nature. i also have wants that are ugly

Title	you cannot simultaneously retain your cake and eat it too
Author	NASA_Lies
Upvotes	103
Comments	14
Date	October 27, 2018 3:04 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/9ruwf9/you_cannot_simultaneously_retain_your_cake_and/
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