Young Man feeling down

RealHerrerasaurus · 2019-11-11T14:08:57+00:00

Is this a troll post or what. Cmon dude, stop feeling sorry for yourself. Too young to be thinking like this and feeling like life is so meaningless

Mouad69 · 2019-11-11T14:15:30+00:00

It's good that you're red pilled from a young age, but give it sometime, men's looks tend to get better by age, i was once in your position too, no facial hair or visible masculine Traits but it got better after my 20s now i receive compliments from girls all the time, also try to hit the gym

MrMagtow · 2019-11-11T14:41:05+00:00

Who do you put first? Obviously not yourself. That's your first mistake.

mcktj · 2019-11-11T14:16:24+00:00

I would recommend speaking to a professional about the issues you have identified. Self worth is at the core of most mental health issues - MGTOW is not all about women - especially if you haven't the history that some advocates have.

Do yourself a favour and turn your attention on getting to be ok with who you are. From that place you can build a life that you are happy living in.

Cyronsan · 2019-11-11T14:41:30+00:00

There's no magic answer, it depends on your personality. Not having the option of women can be devastating. Hobbies, trips, property... a lot of these can be hollow without someone to share your life with.

However, the post red pill malaise you are experiencing may pass. You may feel ok again, and find new goals. Without having to over-stress yourself in life just to compete over women, you might find other joys. Also, don't go at it alone - talk to other men who know the material.

Here's a Youtube video about the post red pill malaise.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w3yIMsxAzF0

Anonymoose_wrex · 2019-11-11T15:00:29+00:00

Just because society is circling the drain doesn't mean your life has to.

The way I see it you have one of two major choices to make first.

Do you want to live loud and prevail in spite of all the societal bullshit that is rallying against you?
Do you want to live quietly and peacefully doing only as much as you need to survive and maintain your personal happiness?

The first is high risk, high reward, high stress and high chance of exhaustion if managed poorly. Some people thrive in this setting. You could call it "the Warrior mentality".

The second is low risk, low reward, and low stress. However, you have to learn to embrace solitude. You will be at peace but to maintain that peace you learn to not stick out, to blend into the background. You could call this "The Monk mentality".

Now, this is a very binary view of many men living their own lives how they see fit. I just tried to break down the early steps into something simple to help guide you on your own way.

Your life is yours alone. It is up to you how to use it and how much it has to interact/intersect with society. That also means it is you that has to put in the effort. Whatever you do, make sure it is working for you (happiness), not someone else (misery).

Hope this helped and please, keep your chin up, young brother. The greatest gift you have is your life but it is up to you to make it something you find valuable.

Title	Young Man feeling down
Author	pappy2222
Upvotes	6
Comments	7
Date	November 11, 2019 2:01 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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