I was talking with a group of co-workers a few years ago when the subject of catching your SO cheating came up. I was the only man in the group. Here’s what was basically said.

Her: “If I come in and my man has another woman there, that bitch better run.”

Me: “Why be mad at her? She’s not the one who violated your trust. She’s not the one who lied to you, or broke a promise to you. For all she knows, he’s single and unattached. I remember when I found out an ex was cheating on me, but I wasn’t mad at the other guy. He was just chasing a hot piece of tail, same as I was when I met her. I never hit her, but my anger was directed toward her, who I thought was my partner.”

Her reply was interesting. I’ll never forget it.

Her: “You’re a man, so I know you’ll never understand this. I don’t know how to explain it, but I’m a woman. I know how we are, and I know how we think. Trust me when I say this. She knows EXACTLY what she’s doing.”