Having some issues coping. Advice?

DangZagnut · 2019-06-11T03:08:49+00:00

I think a lot of these guys have problems because they decided to be short. Early on I knew being taller was much better in life so I chose that option.

JohnLucTyler · 2019-06-11T20:29:06+00:00

Hoping for some girls to go after you shows that you still assert your value other women's perception of you. Wrong bro. Wrong. I like to assert my values against the things I did and all the things all my ex and all the women who rejected me did. I am so so above them and I did things so more challenging that the only thing missing is their vaginas. That's the easiest part to solve.

Abusing-Green · 2019-06-11T21:30:37+00:00

Listen brother, the Incels are angry and in their anger and echo chamber they’ve fermented and distilled their vitriol and the result is this toxic hateful( to women yes but more so themselves).

They cannot see clearly thru the haze of anger and sexual frustration.

MGTOW is NOT about hating women. Because hating them isn’t the opposite of the blue pill path we chose to escape.

Indifference is the opposite path to the attentions the blue pill preaches.

Ignore them. Focus on yourself for YOUR sake. No matter what you do with your life it’s YOUR company you’ll have to keep the entirety of life. Make sure you are someone you don’t mind being around. Because you’re all you have in this chaotic changing universe. You have yourself, your goals, your future.

You owe it to yourself to live your life to make YOU happy! And when you do that you don’t need to cope. You live your happiest life

RabidIndividualist · 2019-06-11T22:57:05+00:00

I mean girls are so disgusting, that to them extreme good looks is ALL that matters.

Sure, I guess in matters of attraction and copulating but don't feel so bad, there is an ugly side to to this, the jealousy and envy from other men in particular is astounding, being the scape goat if you happened to be around some guys girl when she cheated on him lolol, just realise people are garbage in general and they are not above their behaviours. If you were truly good looking you would see the women's hungry eyes as they gaze over you, whilst sitting next to their bf, don't put yourself in his position, cos she's just waiting for the next best thing.

801735 · 2019-06-12T19:31:59+00:00

I think back on all the times I looked up tinder guides, texting guides, how to have frame, lift, diet, even tried expanding my literature/philosophy to be more cultured, and I cringe so hard.

Nothing to cringe about, and a bonus, you can now, with the knowledge you've accumulated, continue to do it for yourself and your interests.

but I wasn’t ready by how much bitches will lie to society, as compared to what they actually do. It sickens me.

Meh. Next as soon as you see, suspect even, the 1st red flag. If you're still interested in it in the 1st place. I presume you know what you want.

Impossible-asset · 2019-06-11T03:09:35+00:00

What do you need to cope for?

Dude this is like you carrying around a 80 lbs sack of sand on your back on the way to the beach.

Just drop it. And forget about dumb subs that inflame your sense of whatever it is you're feeling.

Take care of yourself, that should be your priority. Women cant even tell eachother what they want. So why focus on a sub full of that? It would drive just about anyone crazy.

LouReedsSunglasses · 2019-06-11T05:40:52+00:00

Is this from first hand experience or knowledge gained from a post or meme? Has anyone tried this experiment for themselves? I'm really skeptical of this. I find it hard to believe that a woman would date a pedophile. Maybe a tiny fraction would. I have a sneaking suspicion that those responses to profiles they post up are fake. I don't know. That would have to be a huge number of women who are okay with an admitted pedophile on a dating site, because you have to think someone would report them, and those dating sites are not going to be okay with open pedophiles on their sites. I am almost completely certain that not a single woman in my social circles who would date a really hot looking guy who also openly admitted they were a pedophile. I smell bullshit.

SnapshillBotFan · 2019-06-11T04:02:20+00:00

Women are disgusting for doing the same thing men do? Many men would fuck anyone who’s hot regardless of anything else about them.

The problem is, and I get it, we associate so much value to sex, and many feel cheated out by not getting any. It doesn’t make the women evil, because guess what, there are women who also aren’t getting any.

chalchium · 2019-06-11T04:38:08+00:00

No need to feel bad. Men have always been chasing the young pretty girls. This is a fact. Men are visual creatures. Nobody loves ugly bitches. Even if the girl has some issues, being rude/selfish, if she looks cute, then her action will be interpreted as cute. A pretty chick has an endless supply of white knights defending her actions. It is as if these simps have no moral standard for the girl.

Now reverse gender, you get the same. It is just that women evolved to hide their nature. Men never had this need in the past to hide anything. This is just true gender equality. Nothing to be upset about.

mechgaige · 2019-06-11T05:02:48+00:00

Get off social media, and spend time outdoors.

yermanbob · 2019-06-11T06:01:19+00:00

The qors cope and the word change are directly opposite not the same.

batfish55 · 2019-06-11T08:06:04+00:00

Get a hobby. Even if it's just video games, it's something. Granted, you could find shit that's healthier, but just get something to get pussy off the brain.

unblackmailable · 2019-06-11T12:17:23+00:00

I understand. The combination of love (or honestly "lust" combined with a sense of sacrifice for society and woman) with the disgust of how women act is beyond imagine.

In a weak moment, I still get really down - and that's even a long time past the pain. The way I cope is with a sense of realism that is best described by the stoïcs : "it's beyond your power to do something about it, so don't bother with it". It takes some practice, but through physical exercise and study = actual, current and usefull pain, it makes me feel double as good afterwards. It gets flipped on it's head, and as down I felt before, so much better I feel afterwards. And the best part is, that good feeling is real. It's not a "fake it till you make it"-situation, it's not a mantra. That good feeling is totally justified and nobody can touch that.

Scarsallovermybody · 2019-06-11T13:12:30+00:00

Buddhism and some other religious concepts teach that women are cursed from their beginning.

The older I get, the more I do believe these fellas were onto something.

Women are truly vile creatures.

steelyknife1122 · 2019-06-11T14:08:14+00:00

That's the power of toxic, negative people. You can have a Ferrari and feel poor if you allow your friends to compare you to some billionaire with private jets.

You are popular with the ladies. Stop hanging out with incels.

supermario218 · 2019-06-11T14:11:09+00:00

It's frustrating. I understand how you feel. It's a bitter pill to take for sure. My advice is to focus on yourself. That is honestly the best thing you can do. Treat women like you would a guy. Not special, just another person. If you do it right women can be really attracted to that because you stand your ground, have boundaries, and don't treat them special.

When I was young, my dad always told me to focus on school and being the best version of myself I can be. He always said "Don't chase women, focus on success. Women are attracted to successful men, not some guy who is always chasing and fawning over them." That was probably one of my earliest red pills, and I wouldn't consider my dad red pilled.

I know that advice is often repeated on here, but it's repeated for a reason. Women are not the prize, we are. So build yourself up, and let the chads and simps get destroyed by the "fairer sex".

Also, a good hobby is nice. Honestly the adrenaline rush I get from my motorcycle was always better than sex in my opinion....

leidogbei · 2019-06-11T15:22:15+00:00

take two Iron Pills, one Red Pill, for two months. cut from your media diet: porn and anything incel related.

Let's try this for 3 weeks.

thepacote · 2019-06-11T15:34:35+00:00

For those wondering, he refers to r/chadfish. Even for some that can believe they are aware of people just looking for your self-interest, it can be painful to some to see hypocrisy reaching undocumented levels.

OP, there are some hypothesis on some psychology branches that depression is a natural phase after the way you view yourself or the world shatters. Although it can be a dangerous phase where you can indulge in harmful behaviours, the usual approach is to give time, sometimes with someone monitoring you (therapy, counseling, etc).

This shattered view can bring lack of goals, which can also put you on depression. Again, it takes time.

I mention these because I had many episodes that was aligned with those theories, and it makes sense to me to believe that it might be the case for what you describe.

kayfab · 2019-06-13T01:19:43+00:00

I been offline for 4 years now, its a market place, i am older at 47 but i was there between 41 and 44, its a huge waste of time, even older women have illusions of grandeur, they over estimate there sexual market value cause all the simp message them. They reject 99% of men because they think they can get the 6 feet 6 pack chad even if they are butt ugly.

I have been training for 33y, i have a good physique, but i turn my back on all of this, i still have people who date around me, who are looking for serious relationship and you know what they found nothing........

Dating in 2019 is just that awful, cope no way i am glad i got out just in time, not to see all that crap that is getting worst year by year, soon 60y old hags will think they are as sexy as when they where 20....

Online dating is a disease and discourage men.

Title	Having some issues coping. Advice?
Author	locomotronn
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Date	June 11, 2019 2:53 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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