Hey

Nigeltpower · 2020-02-05T01:37:40+00:00

Not the answer man..........

IAmJacksGagReflex · 2020-02-05T01:44:38+00:00

Is it because you're feeling alone or something else? Solitude for me is a beautiful thing, but I realize that it's not that way for everybody. Do you have a therapist? Have you tried anything to break out of this?

My little brother committed suicide. He felt alone too. There were over 200 people that showed up to his funeral; people that I hadn't seen since childhood. I don't know what your circumstances are, but I guarantee you that there are people that care about you. Sometimes you have to reach out and tell someone what's going on. This is one of those times.

801735 · 2020-02-05T02:21:44+00:00

Going out into the crowd might make you start feeling lonely, on top of feeling alone, so,... tricky situation.

But since you're reaching out, here's an idea you might find entertaining for a while.

Writing a book, no, not a good buy letter, a book, on contemplating going to the Chinese restaurant for a complicated Sui side dish, might get you into the mindset of ordering something simpler, because it could remind you of the simple things in life.

A bowl of nice rice, muh fren, just might save you.

Speaking of food, what did you eat today?

GlobalAsshat · 2020-02-05T03:47:04+00:00

You need someone to come over and give you a handjob? Just kidding. To get out of your slump, set goals for yourself and take baby steps to achieve them. New habits occur one day at a time. Make each day better than the one before. Our bodies resist new habits and like to stay on the familiar road, even if that road leads to our destruction. They say if you are not worried about dying you are not really living. I hate to be one of those people who gives out these cliche phrases about really living, but I've come to see the truth in this as I get older. Time goes fast. Don't waste it.

Robert_is_a_Loser · 2020-02-05T04:01:22+00:00

It's always darkest before dawn my dude . Keep ya head up.

Sid_Insidious · 2020-02-05T14:39:48+00:00

Don't give the b****rds the satisfaction. You are a blank slate man - an empty canvas just waiting for brave new brush strokes. If you feel you have nothing to lose, you have everything to gain. Most suicide survivors report that at the *last second* they think "Oh no I don't want to do this". This is as the powder ignites in the shell casing or as they plunge towards the water below the bridge. DO NOT DO IT. Get help, get a psychiatrist and meds if you think that might help, or a therapist, start rebuilding your life. If you have social anxiety, there is therapy and groups for that. Life is an amazing opportunity - we could have been born lizards or fish or ants but we exist as HUMANS man! Look, life is tough for me too right now and my stress levels are BRUTAL. Some days I feel like giving up, but the MGTOW philosophy has made me quite a strong person and people comment on how resilient I am now - and doing it ALL ON MY OWN! Don't think of (blessed) solitude as loneliness! You can be part of society and have friends - even a g/f. Just put yourself first - men are not told they can do that - we're still expected to provide for others. Everywhere you hear it "Women - put yourselves first!" and they do. Now, men can too. It's still not socially understood or accepted but YOU CAN. Start living for YOU brother, and for now - to h3ll with everybody else!! If it gets real bad CALL for help. It's time we men get down off our crosses and start living for ourselves. Giving up? Not an option. There are a million ways to go when you go MGTOW. Suicide shouldn't be one of them. Start finding your own way with a few steps... Good luck brother... stay strong.

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2020-02-05T16:22:48+00:00

All things pass. If you are going through hell right now.. KEEP GOING.

You have a chance to make things better and everything is going to be ok.. not great.. not good.. but it will be all ok.

Equivalent-Craft · 2020-02-05T22:11:40+00:00

Hey mate iv lived through dark places too. When youre feeln low get outa da house. Go for a walk. Go the mall have a coffee be around pple. Distance yourself from toxic pple in your life...a support group. Lifes good mate👍👍🍺

Impossible-asset · 2020-02-05T01:56:02+00:00

Hi OP, suicide can sometimes seem like a good option, but it is an awfully permanent solution to a very temporary problem. I'd like you to consider a few options that could be of some help:

Call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255 You'll be connected to a crisis worker from the Lifeline who can listen to you and get you some help.

Call, Text, or Chat with the Veterans Crisis Line You'll be connected to responders with the Department of Veterans Affairs, many who are Veterans themselves. It’s available to all service members, their families, and friends. I have called this line myself in the past and they were very helpful

If talking isnt your thing, and inside the U.S, I would encourage you to text "CHAT" to 741741. You'll be connected to a trained Crisis Counselor from Crisis Text Line.

Look your life is yours to do with what you like, but ending it over issues that are temporary in nature (even if it doesnt seem that way) is a poor choice. Look into those options, and I hope in your next post we can be treated to how things have improved for you.

sir_shitfuck · 2020-02-06T02:07:57+00:00

This advice might help, but OP really start living outside your comfort zone.

Write out your goals and put all your focus into achieving them.

You are at or are near rock bottom. Use that to think what does it matter if I fail at doing this or that toward achieving my goals? Transform that apathetic energy into something incredible for yourself.

Take a cold shower. Your mind will start screaming at you to not step foot into it, but that's where the magic starts. Your MIND is the one contemplating suicide, so here's a big fuck you to your mind, step right in that shower and scream out.

After that you can start a gym regimen / running regimen / whatever exercise, but do it hard and intense, with the intensity that the mind hates. Go deep in those squats and deadlifts right to where you don't want to do another set, but force yourself to do it anyway.

And the most important but most difficult aspect, mediation, which done correctly will be a true game-changer, because you can completely detach from your mind once and for all and be in a pure state of peace and tranquility of total acceptance of whatever arises in your surroundings and your mind.

Just my two cents, but it's not worth it bro, your life is precious even if you don't think so in this moment, you have so much potential.

Title	Hey
Author	imaginarycurator
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Comments	16
Date	February 5, 2020 1:28 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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