MGTOW...while still marrying and having kids

901735 · 2020-05-04T23:44:40+00:00

It is possible to still MTGOW and marry and have kids.

Nope. It is not.

Also, marriage is not needed for having kids.

Marriage is dead.

solaris32 · 2020-05-05T02:20:06+00:00

MGTOW is just going your own way and doing what is best for you. It doesn't mean every decision you make is going to be correct. So if you truly believe getting married and having kids is best for you, then I think you can still technically be MGTOW, just not a very smart one.

Just remember that you cannot return to western society with your wife, because she will become corrupted by it. I still don't think it's a smart move, but if you think this is the best for yourself then I wish you luck and for you to be one of the privileged few to have a happy successful marriage and family!

EDIT: This guy apparently isn't serious and just wants to troll us.

Trapperr_AO · 2020-05-05T00:10:08+00:00

You took some degree to remedy to minimize the validation average thot gets from marriage and being respectable in society. At least one whore is sad she can't find a man. Additionally, the wreckage that western legal system would have pounded you should cupcake not love you no more but still love you is beyond measure.

So yes you did go your own way - others will disagree. If having a wife and kids were what you truly wanted you took action by going abroad. Which is more than most men who frequent mgtow subs. Hope it works out for you. Best wishes.

Impossible-asset · 2020-05-05T01:51:47+00:00

No. It's not. I mean I hate to break it to you but mgtow means not getting married. Ever. It's really the ONLY hard exclusion there is.

You just went to another country where maybe the laws and culture are different. But make no mistake, a tropical plantation is still a plantation.

Trapperr_AO · 2020-05-05T08:58:28+00:00

I have been with the same woman for over 3 years. She was married to a narcissist, I know the guy so this is not some story she made up. He has narcissistic personality disorder and cheated on her several times. She works in infosec (literally a mamager for hackers) so she caught him, intercepted everything that he denied lol.

Anyways she's a stereotypical South American Catholic girl who probably never would have left her husband and as far as I know never did anything wrong to him...but when he found out I was dating her, he wanted to fight me but then when I wouldn't stand down he tried reasoning with me like a brother or something telling me that she is a terrible terrible woman who wouldn't turn the air conditioning on in the car for him when she picked him up from work one day when it was hot outside. He's just a fucken pussy.

If that's seriously the worst fucking thing a husband of 15 years could say about a woman...and 3 years without a single shit test from her to me... really hard for me to say no.

I still know the risks of being in long term relationships or being married and this woman is very very good to me. I really enjoy my time with her. She knew from the 1st day I theatred her that there are certain things that I will never ever put up with and if she breaks any of these rules one time I am gone and I will never talk to her again. I also let her know that it will not bother me leaving her and being alone. If you are going to deal with women in any capacity you need to tell them this and they need to believe it. You also need to be able to leave if this happens. There is no such thing as a magical fairy tale love in which both of you are connected forever and ever. You might be able to make something work for a little while or a long time ... who knows?

She's decent looking and makes more money than me and every single week and she cooks and cleans for me and lets me sleep because I work the off shifts. She never resents me for any of it like any American woman would in my past (just get one to cook for you 2 days in a row without paying for it in some way!).

She also works full time and makes more money than I do. She actually feels a little bit guilty about it and is surprised that I don't feel less macho or anything. I like money more than I like what other people think.

She tells me she feels like she isn't my girlfriend but she is a team mate in life. She doesn't keep score on anything. She cooks all weekend long and pays for the groceries 95% of the time, sends me home with food for 3 days. She's happy with me cooking breakfast on the weekends but I like to do that anyways. She won't even let me do the dishes or help in any other way. That's exactly how her mother was raised and how her grandmother was raised. She feels free and priviledged because of this "team" we have. All of this keeps her extremely happy and we have sex whenever I want (she asks before I do)

Before I get any "hitting the wall" comments, I am 50 and she's 46 and she looks 25 even when naked. Solid 9/10 without makeup. If this relationship ends, I'll probably go Monk. Like I say I'm totally happy with her but I can be totally happy without her. My happiness is not based upon a woman or being with a woman.

Any of you can disagree with me or tell me I'm full of shit and can even tell me years from now "I told you so" and it won't bother me to agree. You people are all my brothers and I support you in whatever the hell you want to do... Is long as society is not telling you to do it. Fuck them.

Bobdiesel404 · 2020-05-06T00:14:59+00:00

Mgtow means going your own way mate. It means focusing on yourself and living a life free from long term relationships.

That means: No cohabitation! No moving in with women. No marriage or long lasting relationships.

You my friend are still on the plantation and still chasing for that perfect unicorn. Despite the statistics out there showing that marriage is a failed institution.

I can't tell you how to live your life. I wish you good luck. But if marriage and moving in with a woman is on your mind. You my friend are not MGTOW.

Aviator_92 · 2020-05-08T03:54:23+00:00

There is "Level 1 MGTOW" which is situational awareness. They realize the risks of marriage but the risk isn't high enough to turn them off from it.

Title	MGTOW...while still marrying and having kids
Author	Justanomad
Upvotes	1
Comments	11
Date	May 4, 2020 11:29 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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