Not a unicorn I think

Offroad_Bandit_01 · 2018-08-26T17:47:42+00:00

There are exceptions to every biological rule. Otherwise, we wouldn't be biological. I've had one. It is what I rate every female against since...

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Do you think that there aren't woman out there who do those but then years later divorce their men or cheat on them?

It's telling that you didn't mention "loyalty" or "won't divorce me" or "won't cheat on me."

Why are your standards so low?

If you do want a woman who is loyal, who will never cheat and will never divorce, and who will always be the woman you can be happy with, how would you identify her and not be tricked by a chameleon like thousands of men are every year?

I'd really like to know. My man is former MGTOW. I'm probably everything you describe and even he won't marry me, for good reason. It's too dangerous. I'm a human being. I'm capable of anything especially with the laws being so heavily in my favor. I think I'm loyal but women have thought that and changed their minds countless times. What makes you think you can find a woman who is immune to human nature? To female nature? Who won't destroy your life if it because too inconvenient or too "unfulfilling" to be with you?

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I'm a self identified AWALT. I believe that under the right circumstances I'm capable of hypergamy just like any other woman.

What he and I have done is formed a type of relationship where we have, as best as possible, removed temptation from me and made it so there would be very harsh consequences for me acting on my hypergamy, and very little reward if I were to do it.

Given the right situation I'm sure I'm capable of cheating. Any human being is. I don't think I'd ever do that to my man but women have thought that and then done it anyway, surprising themselves and sabotaging themselves.

I live with him in a state with no common law marriage. My name isn't on anything. I don't have social media. I don't go out without his permission. I don't drink without his permission and approval. I don't put myself in situations to cheat and act on my hypergamy. I agreed to essentially put myself in an environment and situation where it was in my best interest to be loyal and attentive to my man. I kind of model myself after the Amish in a way. We aren't religious but we've learned from them. We've, within reason, removed temptation.

What qualities do I bring to the table? Great question. It's the same question he asked me before he let me move into his house. I cook, every day, I tend to the house so he doesn't have to. He has an adopted boy. I raise that boy who we both consider my son even though, to protect them both, my name isn't on the adoption papers. He calls me mother because I AM his mother.

When we were first got together I'd only had one other sexual partner who I've regretted. I wanted to be a virgin for him but I was weak and had sex before meeting him. But My N-count was only 1, and he wasn't very good at all (The boy I lost my virginity to). And I forced him to wear a condom. It was in highschool.

I satisfy my man's sexual desires whenever he wants. I've taken it on as a responsibility, as important as doing the dishes or cooking healthy meals. I bring peace, ease, and pleasure into his life. I make his life easier in every way I can. If he says jump I say how high. Often times I do things for him without him needing to ask.

I bring peace. I pride myself in being able to shut up and NEVER nagging him. We have a system where I only bring up my concerns under very specific conditions. I treat him like a man. He is in charge and I follow his lead.

In exchange for that I have safety and security. I live in his house without rent, I have his loyalty, I have access to his resources, and I'm able to raise children, a dream of mine. He spoils me and dotes upon me. But if I ever screw up I'm out on my ass.

I don't believe in NAWALT's. I believe that women will act in their own best interest to the detriment of their men if it suits them. And our society will encourage and support our hypergamy with it's laws and social praise. So I caution men. It's so dangerous for you all. And I don't know any woman who would go to the length I've gone to protect her man from her own hypergamy. Most women don't care. We are selfish by nature. Humans in general but especially women since there is very little consequences for our selfishness. I actively try not to be that way because this is the life I want to live. Safe, secure, with a man I can respect and love even if he lost his job and we became homeless.

P.S. I'm also young so I have youth. I'm 24. Almost 25 so I'm about to hit the fence. I work out regularly and eat a very healthy diet so honestly, I'm an 8 at least~

[–]Jetset572 points 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link

You are truly a rarity and are obviously very knowledgeable. To say luck struck your man would be an understatement. I imagine I'd have very little reservation in relapsing from MGTOW if more women were like you, but of course that's not the case.

To see a woman so unabashedly acknowledge female nature is, well... incredibly rare. Many mature and intelligent women typically fallback into NAWALT nonsense when the topic of female nature is brought up, so reading your post was a bit of a surprise.

This is of course assuming your post is genuine and not an elaborate attempt at trolling, ynk.

I suppose all I can end on is... Enjoy your self-awareness and what you and your partner have. I'm 20 and can only hope to find a woman like yourself eventually, but I won't hold my breath. Enjoy and take care.

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Only about 13% of marriages are happy marriages.http://www.apa.org/pubs/journals/releases/gpr13159.pdf

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8byGFryWQRU&feature=youtu.be

Of those marriages, they almost primarily belong to the hyper religious. I'm talking the amish or people that attend church regularly. Or you hyper religious. Because if you aren't the chance of having a happy marriage is even lower than 13%.

The decision to be MGTOW is a cost-benefit analysis. What are you potentially getting out of marriage, which you can't get out of simply having casual sex or buying hookers, that is worth the 87% chance of being miserably stuck with someone. Or the 50% chance of having an expensive, traumatic, family destroying divorce?

What do you think makes marriage so valuable that it is worth the 87% chance of your life being destroyed by it? Even if you have an amicable divorce you still leave with your heart ripped out of your chest. Why deal with that possibility?

You can have sex outside of marriage. You can raise children outside of marriage. Hell, lets say you went full simp mode and cohabitated, you get everything out of her while cohabitating that you'd get during marriage. In fact when you marry the relationship gets worse because she no longer has to work to impress you.

What is the appeal of marriage? To satisfy some AWALT who is emotionally minipulating you to through a wedding to "prove" your love?

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If you aren't satisfied with your relationship, I'd call that a failed marriage.

The question wasn't "is your relationship perfect." It was about satisfaction level.

How many Disney princesses were unsatisfied with their husbands?

Even when Shrek and Fiona had a rift in their relationship I garentee they'd still rate deeply satisfied if they took that interview. You can have problems and still be satisfied and happy with the person you are with.

The bill of goods we were sold, what makes a unicorn, is a relationship where the love never fades, the passion never fades. Even when times are hard both parties still push through because at least they have each other. Disney princess aren't rating "somewhat satisfied" with their man. Marge Simpson isn't "somewhat satisfied" with her marriage. When they have problems they get through them and love each other passionately, unconditionally. Marge was so in love with Homer despite all his flaws that she uploaded her mind into a computer program to be with him forever.

That's the type of relationship we were told exists.

That's the type of relationship that makes a NAWALT. Anything less is compleceny we've started to accept because it's become socially acceptable to stay in unhappy and less than satisfying marriages. Hell, we live in a world with "starter marriages."

If "somewhat satisfied" is love to you then I pity you on your hunt for your white whale.

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Title	Not a unicorn I think
Author	Offroad_Bandit_01
Upvotes	11
Comments	30
Date	August 26, 2018 5:47 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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