A recently posted subreddit graph/similarity ranking suggested that there is a sizeable amount people who are, at least somewhat, connected to incel spaces. Some users said it is what they've suspected all along, others qualified themselves as men who've gone their own way, rather than sent their own way, among other comments.

Personally, I see no problem with this. There are a lot of young men who've grown primarily in the hostile, anti-male environment of today, who feel dejected, broken, etc; they could have ended up in a lot of damaging communities, but some make here, a place to heal and grow.

Why is it then that many feel animosity towards these individuals? Why is it then that some feel compelled to qualify themselves as MGTOW BUT is also able to get with women, to distance themselves from these people?

As long as one comes here and is seeking to improve, I see no reason to distance from them.