Media calls it the Peter Pan syndrome, btw.

I have decent savings to last my lifetime(have no plans to live after perennial health problems creep in, say 60 years, YMMV). My economy is an issue only when I take a family into account. Otherwise I am pretty comfy, no debt, there's a less stressful job(i work like, 30 hours a week) that pays for my essentials and able to save (about 5-7k per year).

Now there's some point in the new age shrinks like Jordan Peterson saying 'stress helps you grow'. But a woman and kids are too much of a stress, IMHO. Why should I grow anyway?

Besides, the security of a family is just a made-up crap(again, IMHO). Let's take the AOC chick: most of you have seen her gig that she did a decade back; she's so attractive then and it's tough to resist paying/providing/committing to a woman like that; but look at her now, aged and blurting logic like a fish outta water, the same man would think twice to approach her.

In a summary, I see my sex drive as my own enemy that has the potential put me in (too) stressful, inescapable situations. I can't have these deliberations in the real world, so thinking aloud here.