Im 24 and I was with this woman for 4 years, I was working making 11 dollars an hour while she was only working at dollar general making 6 with no car or license mind you she stayed with her mom so her mom could bring her back and forth, I also have sickle cell which is something ur born with I know most don't know about it but in the last year of our relationship the type of work I was doing along with my sickle cell caused a problem in my hip and I had to go on medical leave and see a surgeon long story short the virus hit and my apointment with the orthopedic surgeon was to be rescheduled but that took months, and in those months apparently I couldn't give her what she wanted anymore as if it was my fucking job in the first place to make her life into what she wanted out of life, I could barely walk and was in constant pain and she left me because and I quote "I want what I want and I can't have it" that was her reason, I didn't mention we were also engaged because that was a stupid decision on my part but that made it all the more hurtful, she left me because I wasn't good enough to give her the house and life of playtime she wanted as if it was my job in the first place, why is it always what we can do for women that determines our value as people ? I'm not a fucking tool to use to get a woman where they want in life while I have to kill myself working for the what I want, but that's all we are now apparently just a means of getting where and what they want, why is this ok ? It's not ok if we did shit like this ? But it's normal for women??? Why????