Been married almost two years now. Got into this marriage post red pill as I took the red pill six years ago after my first divorce. It's been incredible and I'm loving this marriage so far and intend to keep up the upkeep on this one. Meaning gaming my wife, being the captain of my ship and allowing my first mate to come along, and raising some great children.

Pre-pregnancy if I flirted with another girl in front of her I would often get histrionic shit tests later, which after passing would end with a night of incredible sex. She would melt like putty in my hands. But only after passing the shit test, by demonstrating that her emotions can not control me and I will indeed flirt with other women. Hell before marriage I did cheat on her, and made sure she found out. Just to see what she would do. I also cheated on every other girl as well so it was interesting to see if she was invested into me. She cried a lot and asked me all kinds of questions and in the end I told her that I was going to fuck other women sometimes, but I would never let myself become emotionally connected to them and then dropped the other girl.

She would also cry a lot when I would create dread in her pre-pregnancy. It would typically be her crying to herself and then saying something like, "I'm so ugly" or "I'm so fat". She was 100 pounds at 5' 4" and has a 7/10 face. But this would cause her to up her workout routine and look up some new makeup videos on youtube, as well as do whatever I wanted to do whenever I wanted sexually.

Oh earlier in the relationship there were bigger shit tests from her. One night about three months into seriously dating I was openly flirting with this clearly a huge slut girl dressed up as Harley Quinn for Halloween. When we got back to my place she started screaming at me, which I just ignored, then she got up, haughtily, and looked right at me. I think she was making sure I was watching. Then she grabbed her purse and said, "I'm leaving you!" and started to walk off. I leaned back in my chair and didn't say anything. She stumbled, looked like something just slammed into her, paused and looked back at me. Took five more steps towards her car. Then started bawling and came back and told me all about how much she loves me and she'll do anything for me through sobs and tears down her face.

Now sure this all sounds bad but these are just the harshest examples of shit tests over years now. Most of the time she's deliriously happy and other couples and friends and family often comment about how happy we are together. And we are, because I pass the shit tests and have static dread due to years of lifting, proper diet, and picking up girls.

But things have been different now that she's pregnant. She's seven months pregnant with a baby boy right now. When there is what I'll call passive dread now, as in we're out together and I go off and flirt with a cutie she has almost no reaction at all. Later she may say, "I sometimes have nightmares that you'll leave me" but she says it with a lack of emotion, and the dread does not inspire the same level of... followship I'll say, for lack of a better vocabulary. There's still a reaction, but it's not the same type of highly emotional reaction I'm used to.

At first this perplexed me. It made me worry. So I upped my dread deliberately and got another girls number while I was working. I've done this before, pre-pregnancy. And I started texting with this girl because we were friends or going to be friends. Obviously flirting ensues as we talk with each other about our lives and what we have in common, just like friends do. I don't have a lock on my phone and before pregnancy my wife would go through and read all the messages, demand to know what the girl looked like (sheesh calm down Mrs controlling we're just friends, but yeah she looks pretty good with her bleached blond hair and has a little heart tattoo at the top of her tits), and would have little crying breakdowns and would try to mate guard by erasing the girls number from my phone or send her messages pretending to be me after I fell asleep.

Post-pregnancy? She did nothing. She just said, "I'd really like to have a girl friend who I could chat with about being pregnant :) :)" with this big truly happy smile on her face. And ask if I could get the girl to come over sometime and maybe if she has a boyfriend she could bring him too. Or maybe we could go on a double date together. She didn't even look through my phone.

All of my attempts to create dread have simply fallen flat now. I tried again a few days ago. She didn't even blink. Now do keep in mind I have not only told her all about game (and it didn't matter before game worked even when I would tell her, "I'm gonna go chicken dance on you" [she calls game the chicken dance]), I have shown her my old posts on TRP and a long time ago in a single life a long way away I made a lot of OPs over there, and I've discussed this and everything with her, but I did all of this before we even got married. And my dread game still worked.

Dread game now? It just doesn't work. She just shrugs it off and moves on. I'll reattempt after the baby is here but she's already assured me that she'll lose all the weight as fast as she can while breastfeeding and sex is still whenever I want and however I want. She's still doing everything in the home and I've even offloaded more for her to do, which she'll laugh about and say, "I'll do it with this beach ball up my shirt".

She doesn't even freak out when I tell her that after the next kid she's getting breast implants anymore. No fifteen minutes of crying about how she's ugly. She just says, "I'm getting used to big tits" and smiles.

I almost don't like it now. Where's the freak outs? Where's the shit tests? I'll think that but then instead of tears and a night of passionate everything goes smothering sex, I still get everything goes sex (oh and lolz at you Atlas she still does anal and is so happy that I even bother while she's pregnant) she'll just wake up early and have breakfast ready before I get up, then tell me about whatever fancy crib she wants to buy with my money. Then asks me if I'll take her shopping this weekend 😱

Any thoughts or comments are appreciated.