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You are giving yourself 8 months to "talk" to a recruiter? Dude, that is something you can do tomorrow. You aren't signing up for anything, just learning and getting options. Doesn't mean I have to talk to then right now either. It's why it's a long term to do. I just started a new job and would like experience there before I join. That plan is next year. Since my job I would be going for in the Air Force is Flight Nurse. I'd like some experience in the trauma area. Keep doing fun things. Job/ba…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/19 10:22 PM
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OYS Month 11 Stats: 29 years old 5' 5" / 165.3 lbs 25.4% bf Fitbit Marriage background: Together 9 years and married 5 years since 2013. One kid. Sex life has been IV drip to keep me around so finally that lead me here. Began unplugging end of May 2018. Blue pill faggot all my life. I knew about redpill before marriage. Ignored it. Guess where I am 5 years later. Finally reading. Needing to put in more of the work. *Dread level: * 2-3 need to add more 3 BJJ has helped with that but need to get o…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/19 05:58 AM
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Oh for sure but overall it's still calorie deficit and moving while the body doesn't have a fuel source. It searches for what's available for energy. That's why I prefer working out fasted.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 08:09 PM
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Well I started fasting again. Maybe 2 weeks now. Usually it takes a little bit before the weight comes off without effort and I can eat almost whatever. I do 16 hours at least and sometimes 24. Still gotta track calories and not over eat. It's pretty easy if you eat trash. IF isn't magic.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 05:58 PM
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Thanks for the recommendation. I'll keep the MGTOW part in mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 04:07 PM
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Broke my hand so haven't been under the barbell. They're not good I'm sure. Just finishing out my last 3 weeks of this program then back to good old compound lifts. Slacked on MFP. That's on me. 1800 was more of a start and adjust. Probably need to stay around 1600.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 04:06 PM
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It's what you want to do, stop being scared of her. This is what made me over think it. "Is it beta", "should I not" etc. I like feeling her skin and running my hands over her. Thanks for clearing up an autistic thought.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 04:03 PM
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You're right. It's not. I've been in limbo of fuckarounditis. That'smy own fault. Complete lack of discipline. Only chose April 26th because of a dietbet.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 11:46 AM
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OYS Month 11 Stats: 29 years old 5' 5" / 167 lbs 26% bf Fitbit Marriage background: Together 9 years and married 5 years since 2013. One kid. Sex life has been IV drip to keep me around so finally that lead me here. Began unplugging end of May 2018. Blue pill faggot all my life. I knew about redpill before marriage. Ignored it. Guess where I am 5 years later. Finally reading. Needing to put in more of the work. *Dread level: * 2-3 need to add more 3 BJJ has helped with that but need to get out m…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 08:45 AM
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Keto is usually an attempt to avoid all of that. Noticed that but still planning to count and adjust. Give it the 3 weeks I was planning then adjust from there. My experience was that I didn't feel sluggish and GI seemed more tolerable. Probably due to increased veggies in my diet.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/19 07:36 PM
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Count calories. I mean it's basically what I'm gonna do with keto anyway. Just makes it easier to avoid junk. Just going off of Steele's MRP basics post since he's a fan of it. End of the day I know it's calories in and calories out.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/19 06:47 PM
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OYS Month 10 Stats: 29 years old 5' 5" / 167.2lbs 26% bf Fitbit - unsure of the accuracy but here's where I'm at physically. Marriage background: Together 9 years and married 5 years since 2013. One kid a 9 month old. Sex life has been IV drip to keep me around so finally that lead me here. Began unplugging end of May 2018. Blue pill faggot all my life. I knew about redpill before marriage. Ignored it. Guess where I am 5 years later. Finally reading. Needing to put in more of the work. *Dread le…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/19 01:16 PM
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Ya done messed up A-a-ron! Pretty sure there's info and what to do during pregnancy. Could have sworn I saw it somewhere on the side.
/r/askMRP14/04/19 06:41 PM
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Eat junk and eat out often was my vice. So far being back at my fasting has helped me stay focused.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/19 08:12 PM
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but you could have smiled and said something fun like "kitchen or bedroom? let's fix that right now". My game still sucks. Something I'll have to work on. Say what I want, give less fucks, etc. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/19 08:25 PM
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Made the mistake of trying to change what was working. I had stopped fasting. So I'm doing that again.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/19 03:58 PM
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What happened was regressing to not trying in this area. Not wanting it. I could add every other excuse but the main point is I'm back at getting my shit together. I can't do anything about failing here previously but I can move forward. Around when I bounced back up to my high I relaxed too much on the holidays. That spiraled into more lack of effort. I don't talk to her about my weight loss or what I'm doing with it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/19 09:18 PM
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More so the phrasing or how I presented it. I think the only positive was not bringing it up again. Just gonna move forward because words are just that. I've gotten the, "we will work on our intimacy" line from her multiple times. I'm working on gaming her more to game. Along with other aspects of things.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/19 08:47 PM
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OYS Month 10 Stats: 29 years old 5' 5" / 168.6 lbs 24%bf Marriage background: Together 9 years and married 5 years since 2013. One kid a 9 month old. Sex life has been IV drip to keep me around so finally that lead me here. Began unplugging end of May 2018. Blue pill faggot all my life. I knew about redpill before marriage. Ignored it. Guess where I am 5 years later. Finally reading. Needing to put in more of the work. *Dread level: * 2-3 need to add more 3 BJJ has helped with that but need to g…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/19 12:57 PM
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Glad I started posting again. I can always count on you Chuck to give me knock on the head of the obvious. I know no one else can do the work except me. However, it helps getting guidance from the vets on this sub and other points of view.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/04/19 06:22 PM
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Not a regular on RPC but it's probably something that will always bother you until you don't care. Women ride the carousel before deciding to settle. Christian and non-Christian. I know my wife's past. It bothered me on occasion but that stopped long ago, before red pill. It's mentioned often in MRP and askMRP. YOU ARE NOT SPECIAL. Just like her n count certain sexual acts are not automatically yours unless you are a man worth it. You're gonna have a bad time if you linger on it. It's something …
/r/RPChristians03/04/19 04:33 PM
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Being at this for two years now. There are no quick fixes here. Exercise and eat less you need. That's it, that's the formula. It takes time, but just set small goals for yourself and focus on that. If you fuck up one day, learn from it and keep it going! Thanks. I've had a lot of up and downs. Will keep at it. Reading Add TWOTSM to your upcoming reading list. I'll do that. I'll add it as a daily reading even if it's only a few pages. I've started to accept that there's no saving this even if I …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 08:58 PM
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OYS Month 10 Stats: 5' 5" / 171.8lbs 24.6 Fitbit Marriage background: Together 9 years and married 5 years since 2013. One kid a 9 month old. Sex life has been IV drip to keep me around so finally that lead me here. Began unplugging end of May 2018. Blue pill faggot all my life. I knew about redpill before marriage. Ignored it. Guess where I am 5 years later. Finally reading. Needing to put in more of the work. Failures Didn't get out enough Didn't game enough Didn't STFU enough Mission • I want…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/19 12:42 PM
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I'm at 23% may give PSMF a go this week and adjust from there. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/19 08:46 PM
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Guess what? If you don't post - no one cares and you're just doing a disservice to yourself. Fair point. Appreciate the input.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 02:59 PM
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I am posting to a married RP sub because we are effectively in that kind of relationship. No you're not. LTR is nothing like being married. You marry this chick and we will be seeing your posts in a few years. We have met each other's families (first gf I took to family overseas) and marriage was somewhere in the plan, but the relationship has gotten EXTREMELY stale over the past time she's been here. Who cares. It's your life not theirs. That's giving excuse that you have to commit because momm…
/r/askMRP27/03/19 11:40 AM
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OYS Month 10 Stats: 5' 5" / 171.8lbs 26.4 navy method - My biggest problem. Marriage background: Together 9 years and married 5 years since 2013. One kid a 9 month old. Sex life has been IV drip to keep me around so finally that lead me here. Began unplugging end of May 2018. Blue pill faggot all my life. I knew about redpill before marriage. Ignored it. Guess where I am 5 years later. Finally reading. Needing to put in more of the work. Failures • Stopped grinding Stopped posting in OYS Fell ba…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/19 02:42 AM
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Didn't do no internet maybe in the future I'll try that. After 60 DOD. Even social media I'll just post pics or videos of my son or get on my fitness group.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/19 06:53 AM
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This couldn't have come at a better time. Been a faggot. Being lazy was easy but unhappy was what sucked. Gonna keep these in mind daily.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/19 06:24 PM
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Slacked. Stopped grinding on 75% of this. The thing is a machine can't function at 25%. All caught up. Can't change the last two months but I can do something about the next two and whatever time I have left. I have a choice. Either continue to spew faggotry. Or nut up and get to work. The former is just unhappily waiting for my grave. I'll take the latter option. 3/25/19 * Lifting: Get back to lifting, some HIIT, and BJJ * Eating: fasting and tracking macros daily * Hygiene: Continue to use dan…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/19 01:35 PM
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It did. Actually been staying off reddit. Didn't even know there was a kick off thread. I'll take a look and post. I went the go it my own route. Staying off social media, reddit, basically screen time, etc. However, any excuse at this point is just vomit.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/19 01:31 PM
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Haven't posted in a while. Stopped grinding. Been having to do HIIT. Just not the same. Should get the green light to lift and do jiujitsu again tomorrow - weight restriction due to broken hand. Need my hand to make money. (There's a handjob joke there I'm sure.) Have a compact wall rack. Haven't folded it to remind myself. Gi and belt are hung there. Had to look at myself in the mirror. Said what the fuck. Past month and a half was a blurr. Don't stop grinding. It goes by fast. Diet, sleep, and…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/19 03:50 AM
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Favorite quote, "You fucked up a long time ago." I have lost 3 jobs in the past, and my wife, who got sick of it No fucking way? Shocking. after she finishes (she says), she will come back She won't need you. Nursing makes a livable wage I know several single mom's in the profession. They do fine without their failure ex-husbands. She's totally adamant that she won't study nursing here because there "her parents help her with our daughter"; plus it's cheaper (free food and home for her). Because…
/r/askMRP27/02/19 01:45 PM
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As someone who did someone this retarded shit. Don't do it. Fuck her if you want to fuck. Give less fucks if she rejects you.
/r/askMRP26/02/19 12:36 AM
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God damn. Good shit.
/r/askMRP23/02/19 09:42 PM
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I mean no point in sulking and becoming an incel. Working on things is better than giving up.
/r/askMRP21/02/19 10:26 PM
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I have them written in a notebook just haven't added them here. I will for the next OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/19 05:18 PM
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OYS Month 9 Stats: 5' 5" / 170 Lbs God damn it I know. Marriage background: Together 9 years and married 5 years since 2013. One kid a 9 month old. Sex life has been IV drip to keep me around so finally that lead me here. Began unplugging end of May 2018. Blue pill faggot all my life. I knew about redpill before marriage. Ignored it. Guess where I am 5 years later. Finally reading. Needing to put in more of the work. Failures • See askMRP post. Mission • I want to raise my son in a masculine hou…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/19 09:32 PM
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Most of them don't even know when they are doing it. Most don't care. Absolutely. About one of the few things I've been able to understand and see. Need to sit down and go through TWOTSM but slow and truly grasp it.
/r/askMRP19/02/19 09:20 PM
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Honestly Coach I think it was more of a power shift test. She's always hated me training. My fault for allowing it to escalate where it did. Looking too far ahead and worrying about things that haven't happened.
/r/askMRP19/02/19 09:18 PM
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Guess I should have linked my last OYS. Marriage length, kids, etc don't make a difference in answering a simple question. 5 or 15 years it's the same fuck up. I was an autistic fuck. I agree I fell into her frame on this one. It was a test and an excuse to try to get me to quit something and reel beta boy back from being out of the house. Took a couple days but I got the picture finally. Righting the ship.
/r/askMRP19/02/19 09:15 PM
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I mean I could have but mini nuking it seems to have helped.
/r/askMRP19/02/19 09:08 PM
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Yeah that was my plan. I'm seeing a surgeon soon. No machines cause I have a home gym/squat rack but been researching and looking up ways I could still lift.
/r/askMRP16/02/19 09:59 PM
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I did give her the "there's the door" her response was "do you want me to pack my bags?". Wasn't gonna kick her out but I left it at, "I'll let you decide." Haven't had any issues over it today. Just gonna keep working on everything I've been lacking.
/r/askMRP16/02/19 08:30 PM
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Fair point.
/r/askMRP16/02/19 08:28 PM
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I'll hit the sidebar for sure.
/r/askMRP16/02/19 05:50 PM
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You missed the part about other areas suffering. It's like winning a million dollars and testing you about not getting milk from the store. She wants to know you don't need her validation in order to succeed.
/r/askMRP16/02/19 05:31 PM
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I did. Not as often as I should.
/r/askMRP16/02/19 05:04 PM
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Jokes on her. I won't stop training. It was a big bluff for sure. I've been at this 9 months have had a lot of 2 steps forward and 1-2 steps back. No one else to blame but myself. Don't think I'm a bad ass but fresh new people are fun to roll with because it's a reminder from where I started. Same with getting steamrolled by a higher belt. It's frustrating but, humbling to see the gap in skill.
/r/askMRP16/02/19 05:01 PM
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Uh.. death grip masturbation? Sweet. Fair point on the last section. Need to constantly work because no one else can do it for me.
/r/askMRP16/02/19 04:54 PM
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She's seen me train a few times. Not making excuse. Just providing information. You can't force someone's view. Women also don't care about your achievements when other areas suffer. That's on me. However not telling her I received my purple belt didn't set off anything. She found out later and congratulated me. The purple belt was for me. Not for her. Even when I receive my black belt, eventually, that's for me. Doesn't mean anything more than my Professor deemed me at that level. Same with pur…
/r/askMRP16/02/19 04:52 PM
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Closed hand met training partner's knee. Finally got it looked at and had a break. Wife has never trained. Doesn't understand it. Just sees as rolling around or hugging. Doesn't comprehend that getting my purple belt solidifies I have no intentions of stopping but even at blue I was going to keep training. Something I want. Can't provide murse skills that's how you lose licenses practicing outside of a setting. I'm good. I'll just pay the tuition.
/r/askMRP16/02/19 03:04 PM
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Doubtful. Plus we just hit the 24 hour mark of this event. Just moving past it since I've gotten sleep. Work on my shit.
/r/askMRP16/02/19 02:56 PM
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Maybe she liked fat useless you better. She absolutely did because I did everything she asked. Canceled plans with people. Always put her before anything. You name it I probably did it. Making the slow changes with fuck ups but slowly changing. My focus right now is to stop being as fat as I am and see what happens then. Just curious any suggestions on lifting one handed?
/r/askMRP16/02/19 12:15 PM
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I thought maybe it was the fear of me not being able to work since I'm the majority breadwinner. Since the little conflict and not engaging about it she's been more pleasant. Or I'm gonna die from poison at some point.
/r/askMRP16/02/19 12:10 PM
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I'll just do both. And eat less.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 11:12 PM
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Doesn't seem to exist anymore.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 10:19 PM
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The thing is jiujitsu at a higher level and experience leads to Training differently. This was a slip accident that I magically punched something or simulated punching something and broke a bone in my hand. Complete accident. Just as much as going on green and getting t-boned. Wasn't an intentional injury and no one was going crazy.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 09:47 PM
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Yup. I should be able to get it down a few bucks but I had a better savings to allow me to do thai. Plus they just added judo class...
/r/askMRP15/02/19 09:44 PM
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That's what I spent. Just can't lift the barbell till I get more info on my hand.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 09:43 PM
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You seem like the guy who got axed and said "Why they fire me? I didn't do nuthin!". You're wrong there but believe what you want. I could DEER with you about the vague responses but it doesn't matter. What's this mean? Is she asking you to do chores and you are doing them? Lawn is mowed? All repairs and remodeling projects completed? Maintaining the house with basic needs. A faucet just stopped working so fixing that this weekend. Are you spending money on other bullshit? Is she? Are you earnin…
/r/askMRP15/02/19 09:17 PM
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So the issue is you two don't have enough money coming in? We have money. But me injured does have me taking this week off of work until I see my ortho surgeon Monday. What things is he going to miss out on? Has he missed out on things already? Not a fucking clue. He's 9 months old and going to Disney land for his 1st birthday because we're visiting her brother and his family. Like what? She's unhappy NOW or has been unhappy for a long time? On and off unhappy. Are you the breadwinner? Yeah. She…
/r/askMRP15/02/19 09:01 PM
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We definitely are ok. My goal is to continue to increase my solo income and add to savings for the future. However, bills are paid and there's never a worry that they won't get paid. There's clearly a stress tied with my injury because I need my hands to work. So at the moment until I know more next week I'm off of work. That's where light duty may come in but I still will bring home a paycheck. Then again I'll find a way to work and continue to provide. If it ever came down to paying bills or t…
/r/askMRP15/02/19 08:58 PM
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I'm still trying to figure out what you mean of take control of parenting. He's 9 months old. He's on formula so way easy to make a bottle when we're out. Daily routine is usually I'll get up at 6 or 7 when he wakes up. Wife stays in bed. I feed him. Change him. Then play. Things a 9 month old can do. He has baby food for breakfast and wife wakes up around that time [this routine is repeated even on nights that I work unless I worked the night before]. He plays some more has a bottle then naps f…
/r/askMRP15/02/19 08:52 PM
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I wasn't gonna break on that. It's an excuse.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 08:41 PM
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I mean you're not wrong but we had issues then too. I just made less. Does Shock Trauma ICU nurse make it sound more dick-waveable?
/r/askMRP15/02/19 07:55 PM
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Monthly. I was gonna see if prepaying would get me a discount.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 06:53 PM
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Yeah true. The more I comment the more I'm seeing how I'm fucking up quite a bit.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 06:47 PM
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Together we make about 110k per year. We have 10k in saving and 5k typically sitting in the checking. So no paycheck to paycheck. I could work extra but that was a double blind that was brought up. Being off 4 days out of the week and home was better vs making a little extra. By a little I mean an additional 1500-2000/ month. So even at 100k/yr it's a 2% investment in myself. I have a squat rack so don't need a commercial gym. Not rich but definitely comfortable. Not sure how much more I can do …
/r/askMRP15/02/19 06:37 PM
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Finances need work. I'll keep an eye on it. She's definitely not a single mom. I play with our 9 month old, and do all the parenting with and without her when I'm home. 15lbs will take me out of overweight. 165lbs and I'm 5'5'' about 20% bf. I will get to 12% But you're right. I need to kill my ego and handle my shit more.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 06:09 PM
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Joint.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 05:56 PM
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Oh for sure.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 05:56 PM
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I know I hate it.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 05:55 PM
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Have one and 69k last year. Increasing to 75k this year. Working my way to 100k in my profession. 2 years ago I was at 45k as a paramedic. Nursing opened more doors.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 05:55 PM
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No pain now and dtf. Guess I wasn’t as shit hot as I thought But I'm definitely not at my absolute best. I'll just keep working.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 05:44 PM
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Not poor and just working on the last 15lbs
/r/askMRP15/02/19 05:42 PM
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How accurate is this statement? She texted. I didn't respond.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 05:31 PM
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I'm the majority breadwinner. She's part time. I'm full time and typically make 75% of the total income. I haven't taken complete control of the finances but I pay all our bills and we've still spent things for the baby. She has always asked for permission to purchase something. I get her input or I do it if I think it's the best option. Ex. Our fence blew down so I paid to have it repaired. Just asked if she had any input she said no and I took care of it.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 05:31 PM
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Ah and as an austist I engaged when I shouldn't have.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 05:20 PM
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I like the way you put it. Thanks.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 05:19 PM
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Those are a bit further away and the cost/time difference isn't worth it to me. Which is why I've stayed where I have.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 05:18 PM
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Sex is a whole other issue. Recently had sex and she revealed that it's hurt frequently so it's turned her off of the idea of sex. Maybe it's the birth control was one idea I had and she is stopping after this pack. I told her it was doctor time but she doesn't want to bring it up to her doctor. Guess I can just mention it in the room since I'm there. Just wasn't sure if that was a line to be crossed or not.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 05:17 PM
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I mean she's free to leave. Just seems like a stupid reason. Plus I know there's no red-sfpplus fucking her. So not even worried there.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 05:14 PM
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Being a beta fag.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 05:02 PM
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Comes out to $147/month. Gracie Barra gyms usually run that and there's not many as close as this one with a similar/wider schedule. I'm gonna find out a out lowering the cost some since I haven't been going to muay thai. Especially not now with a fractured hand.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 05:02 PM
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Tell the class what a faggot you are in all the other areas you failed to mention. House is handled. Finances need improvement on eating out. Planning out meals so we can eat at home. BF/weight too high. Let that slip again. Gonna dial the diet and figure out what workout I can do one handed. Can't think of anything else off the top of my head. I game her. We've been laughing and having fun more recently.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 04:59 PM
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If she's willing to separate over jiu jitsu, she's not worth keeping around. Yeah definitely right there. It's a stupid reason.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 04:52 PM
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"The person with the most power is the one who has the least to lose" She changed her tune in a heart beat. Very true. It may be why she changed from asking me if I wanted her to pack her bags to the it's fine do whatever you want. Of course that may be because she would have to return to working full time from part time.
/r/askMRP15/02/19 04:50 PM
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Welcome. I think everyone gave good feedback. Take it one day at a time. Give less fucks. Reset everyday.
/r/askMRP14/02/19 09:16 PM
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At this point I have just STFU since we haven't been having sex anyway and I'm working on getting my shit together still. As of right now the idea would be to start trying in December of this year. Gonna put a pin in it for now since I remind her about her BC daily and track her cycle. Goal is to reevaluate in July. Open up the shitstorm if need be but if things improve then why bother.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/19 07:36 AM
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OYS Month 8 Stats: 5' 5" / 168 Lbs Marriage background: Together 9 years and married 5 years since 2013. One kid a 8 month old. Sex life has been IV drip to keep me around so finally that lead me here. Began unplugging end of May 2018. Blue pill faggot all my life. I knew about redpill before marriage. Ignored it. Guess where I am 5 years later. Finally reading. Needing to put in more of the work. Failures • Got back under the barbell later than I wanted and less than I wanted but getting after …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/19 01:02 PM
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Pretty obvious from your writing style you are one of three things. A bitch, a troll, or a douchbag. I was leaning toward douchbag. Not fun. Wound up and up tight. Add in some holier-than-thou attitude.
/r/askMRP28/01/19 12:45 PM
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I live sexually frustrated. So stop. I am not needy Yes you are. Lack of sex and focusing on it is creating validation seeking that's discussed here a lo. Deny it if you want but you know it to be true. Got nudes and all but I want this to work. This is going to hang you up and strengthen your oneitis even more. You say you have options. Does she know you have options? Is there any kind of dread? Why aren't you spinning plates? Why aren't you acting like the prize? As Rollo has said if your not …
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/19 08:52 PM
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Summary cause you won't listen anyway. STFU. Lift. Read the sidebar. Give less fucks. Should have read the art of war. I haven't read it but I'm pretty sure you're not supposed to show your hand to the enemy. You're gonna have a bad time.
/r/askMRP25/01/19 11:12 PM
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Haven't gone through this myself but here my my two cents. Most importantly is to STFU. Study the laws in your state. Consult an attorney. If this is something you can live with that's your choice. However, keep in mind she only ended it because her paramour was not willing to break up his family and allow her to branch swing. I would search through the two subs there was a recent FR about how they killed the puppy. It was well thoughtout and tactful. The minute you start acting with emotions is…
/r/askMRP24/01/19 03:42 PM
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Same. Although his posts and twitter stuff is pretty good. Former mod till he was banned by Reddit.
/r/askMRP23/01/19 03:02 PM
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If you're wanting a safe space. This isn't it. Spoon feeding the answers won't happen here. If you wanna pay someone
/r/askMRP23/01/19 02:59 PM
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I guess I do want my hand held Won't get that here. I need someone to talk to. Been there. I get that. Go through the process. None of my friends would get it because they are beta faggots. Get better friends. I am advanced in manipulation and being an alpha Do you want a prize Mr. Alpha?
/r/askMRP23/01/19 02:37 PM
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u/MrChad_Thundercock
/r/askMRP23/01/19 02:15 PM
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The problem isn't the question. The problem is the questions appear as wanting your hand held. That won't happen here. All good. Alot of us do it. Sidebar >>>>>> Read prereqs, STFU, lift, post on weekly OYS for feedback. Start there.
/r/askMRP23/01/19 02:12 PM
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avoid getting the divorce my wife wants. Mentioned but will dig into this. Scratch this goal. In the beginning it will be difficult but everything you are doing should be for yourself. Not for your kids. Not for your wife. Not to impress the hot MILF next door. This is for you. When you thrive, your tribe will thrive. When you begin to add abundance and frame it will help you realize if she walked you will be ok. You lack frame right now. Building your frame is your world and everything outside …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/19 02:05 PM
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I agree. I'll work on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/19 11:30 PM
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Your post was helpful though. Reeled me back in to get back to work.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/19 07:29 PM
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I have the personal training coach app. It has the program as an option. Base and BBB. Thanks FSN.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/19 02:40 PM
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Lift. Fuckarounditis hit me. Won't DEER on it. Just gonna get back to it.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/19 02:24 PM
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Cool thanks. I'll give my RPT a run and if I hit a stall I'll do the generated workout I just had the site calculate for 5 weeks. Gives me a set plan. Just gonna act now.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/19 02:14 PM
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Misread what you suggested. I'll do my RPT then if I stall give it a shot with 531. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/19 01:56 PM
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Is it the boring but big variation?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/19 01:53 PM
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You know what I might do that. Haven't lifted since end of December. I got bored. I'll go with wendler for 8 weeks then reevaluate. Good suggestion. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/19 01:48 PM
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Probably an issues since I stopped. Was fucking around. Back to my RPT workouts. Dialing in the diet. Basically everything I haven't been doing. Bench 175lbs x5 Squat 215lbx x6 Deadlift 220lbs x 6 OHP 100lbs x 4 BB row 125lbs x7 Gonna deload 20% and work my way back up. Again fuckarounditis and stopped lifting to do p90x hybrid for some reason. Numbers are weak and I have been mentally weak.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/19 12:37 PM
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You're acknowledging lack of desire to initiate because of her. So, you're in her frame. Didn't look at it that way. That will definitely help. Practice the rejections. Rehearse in the shower. I'll give that a try. Running it like a simulation might help.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/19 11:58 AM
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Puts it in better perspective. No wasn't apart of no nut November or Not a drop December crap. Didn't know the latter was a thing. I don't follow the nofap community. It was a beginning point last year because I wanted to be a better man so I rediscovered MRP and left NF. Recently it was becoming a frequent thing for me. Plus the porn and I was back to multiple times per week. Saw it as an issue. I might have missed it in your posts, but are you having sex at all after the baby? It was improving…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/19 11:54 AM
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I think my problem recently is I let myself get overwhelmed and frustrated. I'm upping the attention withdrawals too quickly aka ramboing. I'm not living in my frame. Thanks for the input.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/19 11:01 AM
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Haven't been recently. That's a problem I'm realizing. I'm planning to run some errands today with my little dude. Things I need to do anyway. I'm reading Steele's post and the links he provided. Been doing it all wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/19 10:54 AM
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OYS Month 7 Stats: 5' 5" / 167.1 Lbs Marriage background: Together 9 years and married 5 years since 2013. One kid a 7 month old. Sex life has been IV drip to keep me around so finally that lead me here. Began unplugging end of May 2018. Blue pill faggot all my life. I knew about redpill before marriage. Ignored it. Guess where I am 5 years later. Finally reading. Needing to put in more of the work. Failures Allowed my butthurt to show. I stopped my monk mode because I was becoming a horny teena…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/19 10:23 AM
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Yeah. She's on birth control so fairly predictable I think it's blunting a lot of her normal responses. Even pre-red pill we had better sex than now when she wasn't on birth control. I make sure she takes it. She's at least, hopefully, still with the plan of waiting till the first is almost 2 before trying for a second. Not even 2 year old and a new born. We're both in agreement that that'd be likely a shit show. I'll keep an eye out for her increase in sexual interest during ovulation.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/19 09:18 PM
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"Work makes her anxious" is just Womanese for "I want to quit my job and become a SAHM", because she mentioned it anyway. Figure out what you want here, because she's likely to get pregnant again soon (oops) to push that to be a reality. Because two kids are too much to handle for a working woman, right? Shit you're right. If it had been a snake it would've bitten me. I'm not a man with options and still unattractive. Need to act more and put in the work into myself. Easy to say it but I need to…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/19 06:25 PM
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OYS Month 7 Stats: 5' 5" / 164.9 Lbs / BF 23.3% Navy method Marriage background: Together 9 years and married 5 years since 2013. One kid a 7 month old. Sex life has been IV drip to keep me around so finally that lead me here. Began unplugging end of May 2018. Blue pill faggot all my life. I knew about redpill before marriage. Ignored it. Guess where I am 5 years later. Finally reading. Needing to put in more of the work. Failures Engaged into an argument about jiujitsu training. She hates it be…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/19 02:22 PM
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This could be it's own God damn book. Well done.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/19 08:50 AM
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Happens. We can very easy fall back into the old ways. Because it is easy.
/r/askMRP05/01/19 01:51 PM
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Early on you're still validation seeking. Doing things for her because you want to fuck. Just STFU lift. Be attractive and not unattractive. what are the advantages disadvantages of that as opposed to calling it here and now FTFY The biggest disadvantage is you're going to enter into a new relationship the same unattractive person you are now. If you want to kill the puppy sure go ahead. Definitely check out the cut the shit sticky here and post in OYS in the main sub weekly. There's no cookies.…
/r/askMRP05/01/19 09:55 AM
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I'd say dodged a bullet. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/19 05:04 PM
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Was at 160 and was starting to lean out then gained back the weight due to laziness with diet. I'll cut to 155 then evaluate every 5 lbs from there. I want this cut to be a normal walk around weight for me. Tournament isn't for 2 months so I'm alright going at a steady weight loss. I want to get rid of this fat.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/19 04:59 PM
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I mean it's part of my goal to get in shape and I want to compete to test myself. I have a goal to compete at worlds in California. It's not my mission but it's something that I don't plan to stop doing.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/19 04:55 PM
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Yeah IF got me to my lowest. I'll try that with the maintenance every few weeks.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/19 10:24 AM
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Plan was to shed down to 145 and low bf then lean bulk to 155 still low BF. More for BJJ competition weights to compete in the 145-155 weight class. We will see how it goes. Gotta nail these goals then reevaluate.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/19 09:54 AM
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OYS Stats: 5' 5" / 167.3 Lbs / BF 23.5% Navy method (Gonna redo stats in the morning and measurements. Typical new year shit) Marriage background: Together 9 years and married 5 years since 2013. One kid a 7 month old. Sex life has been IV drip to keep me around so finally that lead me here. Began unplugging end of May 2018. Blue pill faggot all my life. I knew about redpill before marriage. Ignored it. Guess where I am 5 years later. Finally reading. Needing to put in more of the work. Failures…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/19 09:31 AM
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I was reading that recently by a couple of bodybuilding competitors. As they got closer to shows they slowly took out carbs in order to shed off fat. Thanks.
/r/askMRP31/12/18 02:52 PM
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Definitely will. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/18 11:44 PM
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Appreciate the input. Cardio has lacked I'll add it back.
/r/askMRP29/12/18 11:44 PM
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I was gonna keep it simple for now. Eat clean, track, hit my set macro goals, lift, and adjust every couple of weeks.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 04:31 AM
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Then that's what I'll do. Track and IF.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 01:49 AM
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There are no shortcuts. This much I'm aware of. Strength isn't my goal and building a lean and ripped frame is what I'm hearing toward. I'll put something together. I'd like to include some workouts tailored toward BJJ but fat loss is gonna come first.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 12:58 AM
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I lack discipline in general Bobby. It's something I'm not proud of. I think my goal is gonna be to track with MFP and adjust. If I can make it a habit like I have working out I'm sure I'll have some success.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 12:55 AM
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Seen it. I'll keep it in mind.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 12:54 AM
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Good to know I'll check it out. Good job on the weight loss.
/r/askMRP27/12/18 11:23 PM
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Well I lost 20 then sustained so how I gotta lose another 20 and drop bf total. Just need to have that low bf.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/18 09:10 PM
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You are short and fat. That is a one two punch in my book. Cut then worry about lifts. Fair point.
/r/askMRP27/12/18 08:43 PM
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I know you recommended keto but I was going to follow IIFYM since I'm in the Facebook group. Was gonna commit to 12-16 weeks and see if I can make some sustainable changes that way.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/18 07:45 PM
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I spoke to my PCP a few months back about keto she was fine with it since I had no underlying medical issues. Next thing I'm gonna have checked is my testosterone. She didn't see a need since I didn't have symptoms but figured since I'm 29 it wouldn't hurt to get it checked.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/18 04:54 PM
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Been advised against keto but you may be right may need to do it till I get to my BF goal of <15%. Started IF back up but I'll do Keto with it.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/18 01:51 PM
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Going back through MMSL and really grasping what Kay is saying is making me say, " son of a bitch" and "God damn it" a lot. Quite a bit actually. He even has a good one about the consequences of not running the MAP. Paraphrasing but you're either staying the same or you'll stay the same and your wife will branch swing to someone better than you.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/18 09:01 PM
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It's a waste of time and counterproductive. Unfuck what you can and worry about the rest later.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/18 08:58 PM
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Good point there. I think it will do me good. I'm gonna have to find ways to channel whatever this is. I know I'll be able to be in a better mind set but the first few weeks are the most challenging. I'm not killing my need for sex. I want sex and love sex. However, I'm obviously stuck at the moment making it a priority. Swallowed the pill for the most common reason, to get laid more. As Kay has put it getting sex is just a side effect of being a high value and strapping man. I'd like to think I…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/18 08:57 PM
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Interesting. Thanks for the input. Good luck to you too. I'll use this time to focus on myself. My mistake the past 3 months my mentality shifted from where it should be.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/18 02:11 AM
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Had this written up for a few days. Christmas Eve and day went well. Working the night shift tonight so figured I'd post anyway. OYS Stats: 5' 5" / 167.7 Lbs / BF 23.5% Navy method Marriage background: Together 9 years and married 5 years since 2013. One kid a 7 month old. Sex life has been IV drip to keep me around so finally that lead me here. Began unplugging end of May 2018. Blue pill faggot all my life. I knew about redpill before marriage. Ignored it. Guess where I am 5 years later. Finall…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/12/18 11:23 PM
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Been doing reverse pyramid training. Debating on changing that up. Diet is where I have not been focused on. Cleaning it up. I have. Seeing things differently. Interacting and being aware of the truth around me, it's a different world than I once knew.
/r/askMRP23/12/18 07:00 PM
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Good analogy Coach. Thanks.
/r/askMRP23/12/18 06:57 PM
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I didn't like it.
/r/askMRP22/12/18 11:06 PM
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It's the obvious tactic that flies over my head. Reminds me of the Bob Newhart skit "STOP IT". You're right though Persaeus. Thanks.
/r/askMRP20/12/18 03:44 PM
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Good suggestion. I'll pick it up after pook again.
/r/askMRP20/12/18 02:49 PM
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You're right MCT. Just got home from work. Gonna lift then sleep before my shift tonight.
/r/askMRP20/12/18 02:42 PM
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Not even porn. Just nothing. Just gonna stop jerking off.
/r/askMRP20/12/18 02:16 PM
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What books have you read? What is your dread level? NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSL, BoP, Saving a low sex marriage. On TWOTSM now. This might be a good time for a short trip or a new hobby. Hadn't thought of that. Might start going to muay thai once a week instead of BJJ. Maybe a change can help.
/r/askMRP20/12/18 01:51 PM
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Thanks. Absolutely right.
/r/askMRP20/12/18 01:50 PM
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Do you have written goals? Short term and long term? Need to review and rewrite. Are you Fapping everyday or worried too much about fantasy football ? Low T. Will get my T Checked. 1-2 per month but going to nofap mode again. Any history of depression? Are you just a lazy fuck? Hanging around Beta losers? No diagnosed history. Been a lazy fuck. Need to hang around more people. Are you fucking? Not more than 1-2 per month. I see the problems now.
/r/askMRP20/12/18 01:49 PM
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Stopped grinding. Diet. Owning my shit. Overall, went on autopilot. Just lacked the motivation. I have my plan set and getting back to putting in the work.
/r/askMRP20/12/18 11:47 AM
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Good points. Thanks
/r/askMRP20/12/18 08:39 AM
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Post OYS every week and be more specific and you'll get all the feedback you need, this post it too vague to give any useful advice. I'll do that. Something I stopped.
/r/askMRP20/12/18 08:38 AM
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OYS Stats: 5' 5" / 169.9 Lbs / BF 24% Navy method Marriage background: Together 9 years and married 5 years since 2013. One kid a 7 month old. Sex life has been IV drip to keep me around so finally that lead me here. Began unplugging end of May. Blue pill faggot all my life. I knew about redpill before marriage. Ignored it. Guess where I am 5 years later. Finally reading. Needing to put in more of the work. Failures Way too many to count. I'll tag a few Gained weight back. Haven't been leading B…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/18 02:01 AM
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Yeah look through stupidity in my post history. Yeah my wife is currently stopping and she's ramped up on everything. Rollercoaster but have held strong. Add shark week and it's a cat 5 hurricane. Still went out for a drink with the guys and still did my training. Funny when you stay the course the winds can change in your favor.
/r/askMRP06/12/18 05:43 AM
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Her hormones are all over the place. Weather the storm. You can lift. Build frame. STFU. Don't go ramboing like I did. The goal isn't her. Pregnant or not. The goal is your mission and making yourself into the best version of you that you can. Lead your family and own your shit. Once she stops breastfeeding her hormones will be all out of wack again. Your best place is starting with the prerequisites and creating your map. If you're not lifting. Get to it. BluePillProfessor has good book on the …
/r/askMRP05/12/18 01:51 PM
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Who are you? No stats. No post history. Sidebar. Lift. STFU. You think you're entitled to anything? Welcome to marriage princess. Not even gonna quote your post cause it's all gay. Maybe I will because I'm tired. Maybe one blow job every other month since. Easy mode starfish. Doesn't even have to spread her legs. and I’ve NEVER cheated on any girlfriends ever. You think you've earned a prize or something? Someone gave you the answers 21 days ago maybe you should go back and look at the sidebar s…
/r/askMRP04/12/18 02:49 AM
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I may have finally had that "ah ha" moment reading your comment. Thanks for helping then fat piece of shit become self aware of where he's royally fucking up.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/18 01:22 AM
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Easiest option would be to go fuck the next door chick. What's keeping you in the marriage? Divorce rape?
/r/askMRP28/11/18 02:05 AM
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Probably recognized his profile pic cause it was a full face shot.
/r/askMRP28/11/18 01:58 AM
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Nothing wrong with that. Sometimes a little change is good. I'm finishing out 6 weeks of leangains then following stronglifts 5x5. I just want to finish what I said I was gonna do and that was 12 weeks of lean gains.
/r/askMRP27/11/18 05:17 AM
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Everyone has supplied with adequate info. The thing you don't want to do is become her emotional tampon. You are not her girlfriend but you are also not there to not give her some attention. Let her vent. Actively listen but don't offer advice or solutions. Just be present.
/r/askMRP24/11/18 04:35 AM
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Just found the butthurt post. Read it. Getting rest. Thanks Steel.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/18 03:10 AM
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Gonna leave my pokey comment but disregard. Found what I needed on the sidebar. The "I get it" post. I'll look for the j10 comment on butthurt. Thanks for the suggestion.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/18 02:34 AM
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I'll look it up. Your comments always seem to help when I fuck up or struggling. I'm hitting an internal faggot struggle and feel like not even trying to have sex with her anymore. Same with gaming her, teasing, etc. (Maybe it's a good thing because it'sjust a big covert contract after all which is why I'm rereading NMMNG.) Just start focusing that energy into all the other areas of my life. Breaking out the list of red areas I made from MAP and make a plan to fix those asap. I know how much of …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/18 02:21 AM
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But I posted to compare to know if my goals needed adjustment. There's no need to compare to anyone else. Only time that you should if you are competing and even then it doesn't matter because you either come out on top or you don't. Only person that matters to beat is yourself. You set your own goals. Beat them. Rinse and repeat. Want to hit 1000 pound club? Cool 1500? Cool. Go after it. Just like there's a side bar for MRP there's info out there for this. If you're stalling. Take what you're d…
/r/askMRP22/11/18 04:41 AM
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Had to look that one up. Looks nice.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/18 01:19 AM
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Who cares? Are you better than you were previously? If you're stalling it's time to change up the routine.
/r/askMRP21/11/18 07:09 PM
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Oh shit. That makes sense. One day I'll stop being a fumbling retard. Didn't have game before her. Not sure how I got her to fuck me in the first place. Thanks for the input.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 12:05 PM
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OYS 7 Stats: 5' 5" / 162.3 Lbs / BF 22% Navy method Marriage background: Together 9 years and married 5 years since 2013(I can never get the number right when I type it). One kid a 6 month old. Sex life has been IV drip to keep me around so finally that lead me here. Began unplugging end of May. Blue pill faggot all my life. I knew about redpill before marriage. Ignored it. Guess where I am 5 years later. Finally reading. Needing to put in more of the work. Failures a couple of shit tests but no…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 04:06 AM
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Fuck yeah.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 12:25 AM
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Oh man buried comment. Thanks. Went back to copy my previous OYS and saw this. The other thing that I found really has helped my mindset is to imagine life after a divorce. What would you do, where would you go, what would be better and worse. Really live in it. For me, playing out what could happen removes the fear of her getting pissed off at me. Fortunately already thinking there. I'd stay at the house she would leave to her mother's. Financial would be difficult at first but can manage. I'm …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/18 10:50 PM
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It's the best. Been on and off for 8 years and next promo is my purple belt but doing a few tournaments till that happens and if it happen before then I'll still go and compete.
/r/askMRP20/11/18 03:47 PM
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Gonna respectfully disagree. Feeding a cat every 2 hours isn't the same as feeding a baby every 2 hours. Cats go do what they want after. A newborn or infant doesn't and still needs attention or to be held. You're not wrong but there is such a thing as being too exhausted for sex or anything. Stress and exhaustion does that to you. Especially long term stress and exhaustion. That shit's a bitch. Then again my wife is probably just still unattracted to me so I don't know anything different.
/r/askMRP19/11/18 10:24 PM
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Common trend is BJJ it seems in MRP. Mix it with muay thai and you've got a solid standup and ground game. There's sport BJJ and self defense BJJ. Street fight ain't no way in hell I'm going to the ground or staying on the ground. Krav might be good but wouldn't want to even deal with a knife if I can pull my gun first.
/r/askMRP18/11/18 08:19 PM
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Yeah. Not the same. Just wait. You'll see. You'll see.
/r/askMRP18/11/18 03:11 AM
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Ain't that the truth. 4 hours is a blessing.
/r/askMRP18/11/18 02:07 AM
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I mean it's in the sidebar but dread is not advised during pregnancy. Even post partum. You can look at my post history to see the stupid shit I did. Top level faggotry. So as for her even small changes could throw her into a hell storm. I mean she's miserable and carrying a parasite basically (House M.D. reference). So proceed with caution. Since you're unplugged or kinda unplugged. You're in a better place than most of us that knocked up our wife/LTR PRE-MRP/TRP that at least have a Clue. Stil…
/r/askMRP18/11/18 02:06 AM
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I think everyone else handled it but here's my plug. Stop by the Cut the shit thread and actually put in some work vs stopping in once a year because your wife still won't fuck you.
/r/askMRP13/11/18 01:18 PM
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Basically why I didn't apologize or explain and then went to bed. Now she's calm. I'm sure more tests will come.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/18 07:09 PM
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I figured. I know she doesn't like that I'm not begging on my hands and knees anymore.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/18 03:44 PM
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OYS 6 Stats: 5' 5" / 161.3 Lbs / BF 22% Fitbit scale Marriage background: Together 9 years and married 4. One kid a 5 month old. Sex life is IV drip to keep me around so finally that lead me here. Began unplugging end of May. Failures Didn't game as much but when I did it paid off the one day Failed several shit tests this week. One this morning that I'm not sure if I handled it right. I stopped and got food for my wife after work. I didn't check the bag so they forgot the tater tots. She lost i…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/18 02:51 PM
2

Just started Alpha Moves by Ironwood. Not bad. Although, I'm not q fan of fedoras.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/18 10:31 AM
1

I've noticed. Keep up the work.
/r/askMRP03/11/18 09:30 PM
2

She hates pumping and feeding him. Easier just to whip out the boob then pass him back to me. In place of that I take him in the morning like today so she can sleep a little extra when we are off work. It gets me time with my boy to watch him play and be an infant. Remove time and attention for what ? Ignoring a full grown man to grow her greatest gift to you ? You got a point there. Overall, I got it now. Stop being a faggot. Just STFU. Lead. Be attractive.
/r/askMRP03/11/18 01:10 PM
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Alright I'll STFU and master that one by the end of the year. Yeah I liked it too. I'll take him with me. Problem has been his eating schedule. I'll think of q way to solve it.
/r/askMRP03/11/18 12:18 PM
2

Great post. I'll bust out the stroller and go for a walk with him tomorrow.
/r/askMRP03/11/18 07:58 AM
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You're definitely right. I'm having trouble transitioning away from doing this for her and more for me. I'm in the fake it till you make it. I mean entire life of bullshit/blue pill condition vs 4 months of actually trying to change. It's not gonna happen over night right?
/r/askMRP03/11/18 07:55 AM
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You are DEERing. Fail Maybe AA would be better? "I gotta train for the day ninjas attack?" "You never know when Chuck Norris might wanna try to wrestle." "I like to snuggle in pajamas. This is a close second." - Stuff like this? I need to go back and review how to pass shit tests then. Why don’t you want to fuck her? Is it because her attitude or looks ? Attitude. Definitely attitude lately.
/r/askMRP03/11/18 07:52 AM
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That's where I keep fucking up. Entering her frame. I've ramboed. Doesn't go well.
/r/askMRP03/11/18 12:57 AM
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You're not wrong. Something I haven't done and need to do. Set boundaries.
/r/askMRP03/11/18 12:56 AM
1

She knows my blue pill self. It doesn't come off natural. It comes out too forced. I'll reset and add more cocky funny. Experiment with it.
/r/askMRP03/11/18 12:55 AM
2

A massage sounds good.
/r/askMRP03/11/18 12:13 AM
1

Typo. Things* Yeah noticing that. From the comments. Well fuck.
/r/askMRP03/11/18 12:09 AM
2

You seem to have a better handle on understanding of all this post partum. So am I supposed to not lift And not go to Brazilian jujitsu The 1st couple of years of my child's life? I'm not even trying to pull the cocky funny anything right now because I'm not good at it. At least not with her. I lost weight after the baby because I was tired of being fat. I came to mrp because I knew I needed to really unfuck myself and hold a better version of me. I'll probably have a shitstorm when I get back f…
/r/askMRP02/11/18 11:06 PM
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Right currently hes being breastfed so it makes it difficult because he eats every 2 to 3 hours but we can definitely do walks to the park and around the neighborhood.
/r/askMRP02/11/18 10:57 PM
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That's what I'm trying to figure out where I fucked up. I impregnated her premrp. I want a stable home for my son. I didn't go to training very much is that all last month in October due to her getting sick and I stayed home taking care of our son so he wouldn't get sick since we weren't sure what she had. Maybe just a simple cold not sure. Both work in healthcare so didn't want to bring home anything. Then how do you pass a ship test of taking up a hobby and being a busy man. We haven't been ou…
/r/askMRP02/11/18 10:56 PM
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That too. Thanks for the obvious tip on the trip thing.
/r/askMRP02/11/18 10:28 PM
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That's a good idea. Never thought about that. edit: Seriously how has this not crossed my mind. Tunnel vision maybe.
/r/askMRP02/11/18 10:14 PM
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That's what they advertise.
/r/askMRP31/10/18 04:04 AM
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OYS 5 - Basically haven't been Stats: 5' 5" / 162.1 Lbs / BF 22% Fitbit scale gained almost 4 pounds but bf hasn't changed so maybe my previous was water weight. Gonna work on the cut. I'm assuming it was water weight because the rest of the week showed 160-162. Marriage background: Together 9 years and married 4. One kid a 5 month old. Sex life is IV drip to keep me around so finally that lead me here. Began unplugging end of May. Failures Gained a couple of pounds due to not being disciplined.…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/18 04:03 AM
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Plan to sign up on it tomorrow and listen to videos on drives. Change up from audiobooks.
/r/askMRP30/10/18 11:11 PM
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Netflix for men and red pill content.
/r/askMRP30/10/18 11:11 PM
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Your preview on YouTube is what caught my attention. I eventually plan on going to one of the conventions in the coming years. I'll check it out. Thanks.
/r/askMRP30/10/18 11:10 PM
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Kill the puppy. so she doesn't lose face with her family Sounds like not your problem dude. It's not my idea of marriage and it's hard to accept. So don't. Why are you accepting something you don't want? Is this your life or not?
/r/askMRP28/10/18 01:55 PM
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He won't be in a bubble. No over protection here. But sleeping with an infant isn't a good thing. Had several EMS calls because parents fell asleep with the child and the child died. When they're older no problem. It can happen. Especially with exhausted parents. It's a rare thing but it does happen. Not worth the risk.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/18 04:32 PM
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The one thing that isn't changing is, you guessed it. My wife. So? Neither is mine. You stay the course. Unfuck yourself. End of the day she's either gonna hope on the train or not. If she gets left behind that's her problem. You still give he a chance but you're not stopping it. Is frame, being able to be treated like shit and not care indefinitely forever? Or is it possible to have frame and just not want to be constantly treated like shit? Your frame is your reality and your world. It applies…
/r/askMRP25/10/18 11:49 AM
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Best post I've seen on DEERing explained and broken down. Here Make sure you are on r/marriedredpill and read the prerequisites in the sidebar it's actually in one of the books. Until I got to that book this was a good cliff notes version in order to work on stopping it.
/r/askMRP25/10/18 07:09 AM
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I'm so glad I saw this before I posted something stupid on r/askmrp Back to work.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/18 03:21 AM
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Absolutely. He has to grow and experience things.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 11:31 PM
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OYS 5 *Stats: 5' 5" / 151Lbs / BF 21.5% Navy Method Marriage: Together 9 years and married 5. (I Actually can't fucking count and forgot August made 5 years) One kid a 5 month old. Sex life is IV drip to keep me around so finally that lead me here. Began unplugging end of May. Failures Home maintenance went down hill. Improving it this week. I've been a dancing monkey. Working on leading, frame, and mission. Didn't game my wife as much since she was sick but past two days I did better. I was a l…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 07:30 PM
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OYS 5 *Stats: 5' 5" / 151Lbs / BF 21.5% Navy Method Marriage: Together 9 years and married 5. (I Actually can't fucking count and forgot August made 5 years) One kid a 5 month old. Sex life is IV drip to keep me around so finally that lead me here. Began unplugging end of May. Failures Home maintenance went down hill. Improving it this week. I've been a dancing monkey. Working on leading, frame, and mission. Didn't game my wife as much since she was sick but past two days I did better. I was a l…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 07:30 PM
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You say recently so I'm assuming fellow Astros fan.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 07:09 PM
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I agree on the crying and also think it is only acceptable in certain situations. When my son was born those were tears of joy and I'm not ashamed of that. My wife tried to shame me once and told me of a father that fell asleep with his newborn son, early on it was a struggle a couple of times but I got better with lack of sleep, and the father fell asleep for several hours which resulted in the child dying. I looked up the story. Read it. I broke down. I broke down because the thought of losing…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/18 07:07 PM
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When your wife is compiling about work. etc. am I here to just lend an ear? Offer a solution? I don't offer solutions. I can't remember what book but it says she doesn't want you to solve her problem. To just let her get it out. She's more frustrated if you're trying to fix every thing for her. I think you handled the BMW issue appropriately. Get it taken care of. Shit happens and you move on.
/r/askMRP20/10/18 03:48 PM
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I think the statistic is 10% of children are of another. Maybe it was 30%.
/r/askMRP19/10/18 09:37 PM
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I think the problem with us new guys is we get told to STFU and to just do that. A good majority of us take that to LITERALLY to heart and literally STFU completely to 90%of things that are thrown our way because we don't want to answer wrong or seem butthurt. Then it was just a failed test and end up here wondering why we failed. It's a conundrum but I'm finally seeing what needs STFU and a smirk and what needs an answer with what tone. It's that Dancing Monkey post that shifted things for me. …
/r/askMRP19/10/18 03:23 AM
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Personally liking leangains reverse pyramid training. Quick and short. Planning to do it 3-4 times per week for at least 6 months. I liked SL and GS as well though.
/r/askMRP18/10/18 01:19 AM
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Sounds like your head is at least clear for the moment. You got a plan as well. Stay grounded. Good luck.
/r/askMRP17/10/18 09:51 PM
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Shit. Solid advice. Thanks. Resetting and going at it fresh in the morning. Can you answer this part? She's in this "we're not friends" and wants to be friends first way. I told her we're lovers and husband and wife. Even used the I have plenty of friends line. Like BPP said pick one. But maybe that was more mommy vs lover but still not looking to be friend zoned in my marriage. Basically has tested me with saying the above and talking to our 5 month old that "I don't like daddy anymore." I told…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/18 01:29 AM
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Yeah poor move on my part. Still failing shit tests. So need to improve passing those. They're obvious tests but I've failed a few lately.
/r/askMRP17/10/18 01:06 AM
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That's what I thought. I have a lot of work to do. After realizing I've been a dancing monkey the past few months it's no wonder I've made little progress but I've heard that'll happen. She may never respond. I've made progress on myself and that's what matters to me. I'm going to continue to improve myself and improve my household.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/18 06:35 PM
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Dude is trolling. Posts the same thing on different subreddits everyday.
/r/askMRP16/10/18 03:26 PM
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I have trouble watching football and baseball lately. It's an occasional thing now. I'll follow on google and see if the Texans or Astros are playing or won their games but I can't sit still for 3 hours watching a Football game or 5 hours watching a baseball game. However, go ASTROS! I've never had the "we" mindset. It's they, them, that team. It's their accomplishment. Watching MMA fights on occasion is another thing but I've mainly caught highlights because I usually work those nights. Usually…
/r/askMRP16/10/18 02:26 PM
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I mean if it works. I think one of the big things here is others will say to take more hold of the finances because women want the man to lead in the arena. Plus is helps knowing where every penny goes. Not saying tomorrow just bam "I'm doing all the finances fuck you." But set up a way for you both to view it on one screen. Ex. Wife does not like apps. I do. I use mint and she writes everything into a word pad of everything we spend. The compromise is I'm going to use a spreadsheet and outline …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/18 12:24 PM
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Current Dread Level: I'm going to say I've moved into 2 now for reasons I'll go into shortly. 1 and 2 go together. Even 3 works at the same time because you're doing something outside of the house. 1st 3 months is a good combo then you add something else because you're too busy for a raging harpy. I'm a little confused about the financial dynamics. Is it split? Does she control hers and you control yours?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/18 11:58 AM
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Should clarify that that's what lead me here. Staying the course and going through the dread levels. Only at this 4 months. I've giving this a full year of improvement and if nothing changes then I make that final move on this marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/18 11:30 AM
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Dancing Monkey Stop ramboing. Starfish? Pound that pussy. I need to take that pointer myself. Physical: Keep running and lifting. If you can afford two maids you can afford a gym membership or your own rig. Stop fucking around with dumbbells. Stop being a faggot and lift heavy. Also should probably read better because all I am seeing is you've read it 3 times and haven't internalized jack. Go back to Blue Pill Professors Saving a Low Sex Marriage. Go through dread levels. What's level 1? Lift he…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/18 10:53 AM
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Seems everyone else answered questions. I'm following leangains which has similar info as rippedbody I believe. Here's an easy calculator for macros. There's standard and leangains. Even Martin Berkhan has shifted apparently from carb cycling on a cut. I'm just sticking to high protein, low fat, moderate carb in order to remain consistent and disciplined. For now stick to something, track for success, and be consistent. You're on the right path. Best of luck killing the puppy. Sounds like it was…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/18 10:40 AM
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OYS 4 *Stats: 5' 5" / 158.3Lbs / BF 21.5% Navy Method Marriage: Together 9 years and married 4. One kid a 5 month old. Sex life is IV drip to keep me around so finally that lead me here. Began unplugging end of May. Failures I did not go to BJJ. Need to work on gaming my wife more via text when we have weeks we do not see much of each other. Had opportunities with I miss yous that she gave me but I bitched out. Will work on that this week. I've been a dancing monkey. Working on leading, frame, a…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/18 09:59 AM
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I am proud of the progress. I just want to hit some goals. Best I've felt and looked in years.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/18 12:28 AM
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Yeah maybe we were off on the calipers. Navy method I got 21.5%. I'll set a goal based on it. Basically main goal is to look good naked and gain strength.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 11:22 PM
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Lazy intermittent fasting. No matter if I ate crap or if I was conscious of what I was eating if I did anything else. I would fast 16+ hours. Originally did p90x3 for 6 weeks while I got the garage gym set up. Now I'm trying to stick to 1800-2100 calories on lifting days. If I don't do low carb on the non lifting days I'm staying within 1600-2100 to not lose momentum. Also thanks. I know I've made some good changes. I'm gunning for the best shape of my life by 30. Leanest I've ever been and not …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 09:29 PM
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Oh shit. I am being a dancing monkey. Fucking hell. Welp. Now I know why the past 4 months haven't been that successful. Eye opener. Thanks. Back to work I go.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 05:31 PM
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Thanks good to know I'm not as fat as I thought but still trying to get to that 10-12%. Mmsl, NMMNG, WISNIFG all done just forgot to add to this OYS. TRM(in progress), Subtle Art of Not Giving a a Fuck suggested and started since ai give too many. Also reading Saving A Low Sex Marriage by BPP. I'll check the dancing monkey post later today
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 05:22 PM
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Meant for you u/RPenginerd
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 05:17 PM
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That's a good way to put it. Unfortunately, I've made mistakes about lying in the past so she doesn't trust me. That's my fault. I'll be more forward about my needs and the stance on cheating. It's not acceptable for either party plus just sounds like too much work to sneak around.
/r/askMRP09/10/18 04:04 PM
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That's good you found a therapist that gets it. I have a friend that cheated on his white. Saw a therapist. 100% blame and shame. I get it. Own what you did but there's reasons he went for strange. I've had to do complete resets too. Considered a therapist but I have a buddy that's naturally red pill aware that hears me out and calls me on my shit. Figured that was good for now.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 03:55 PM
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No problem. Same app has calorie/macro break down and once you plug data it tells you your caloric breakdown. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 03:49 PM
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Also FitMath is a good app to use on android. Not sure about iPhone. It has navy method as a calculator along with other tools.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 03:09 PM
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Haven't given the FUOFM yet. It just was interpreted as that and as if I don't get sex I'm going to cheat. You know how women twist things. Definitely not to that point of giving the ultimatum. Dread level 10 or 11 right? I'll use that initial one. Life is too short. Thanks InChargeMan.
/r/askMRP09/10/18 03:08 PM
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My problem is I still give too many fucks bout her response. I'll escalate the next, "I'm worried you're going to cheat." I just can't think of the response. "Guess you'll have to audition and see where you stand."? I'm shit at AA and AM.
/r/askMRP09/10/18 02:45 PM
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http://fitness.bizcalcs.com/Calculator.asp?Calc=Body-Fat-Navy Google is your friend, buddy.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 02:37 PM
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OYS 3 (or more lost count) Stats: 5' 5" / 159.2Lbs / BF Caliper measurement said 14%. 17% is a likely estimate even with being off my friend said. Navy method says 22% and fitbit says 24% but read fitbit can be off substantially/ 29 yo Marriage: Together 9 years and married 4. One kid a 5 month old. Sex life is IV drip to keep me around. Here is a comparison from April to now maybe a better idea of where I'm at BF wise. Failures I took my foot off the gas pedal. Failed a few shit tests. I stumbl…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/18 02:29 PM
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This has to be a troll. Covert contracts out the ass. It's ok. I fuck up too. In reality it really isn't ok.
/r/askMRP08/10/18 04:51 AM
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Bingo. It's how I get some online practice. I've been working on WISNIFG more at work and in my personal life. Family, friends, who ever sounds manipulative or tries to make me feel bad/shame me.
/r/askMRP07/10/18 06:16 PM
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Bingo. Been a blue pill faggot my whole life. 29 now and most of it blue pill ways. Did some things right with a couple gfs then in the relationship I was Beta Billy and Mr. Nice Guy. It disgusts me thinking about those days but that's the past. On the plus side I stopped fucking around with my workout routine and I'm back under the barbell. Next is STFU waayyyy more.
/r/askMRP07/10/18 06:13 PM
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I think this comment wins the thread.
/r/askMRP07/10/18 06:10 PM
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Great post. I'm working on game but I clearly have sucked at it for months. I'll work on it more.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/18 09:55 AM
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Great suggestion Bobby. Guess I didn't realize what the actual meaning of not giving a fuck. Still listening. I give too many fucks. If I'm recalling right at the prime of the relationship and what made her drop her panties while she had a boyfriend. I didn't give a fuck about a lot of things. I did what I wanted. Hung out with who I wanted. Said what I wanted. Was still beta bitch deep to the core and Mr. Nice Guy but I had fun. I was fun. I'll look at the side bar and find something else to pl…
/r/askMRP07/10/18 05:40 AM
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It could be Crossfit, doubles tennis, board games with other couples, a cooking class. The younger the women, the better. Good suggestions. Something that will instill some actual dread but not doing it on purpose. Just having fun. up your grooming and clothing choices (context-dependent, of course). Fuck it. Pimp suit all day every day.
/r/askMRP07/10/18 05:35 AM
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Listening to it now. It has some entertaining moments but only on chapter 3. The you're not special chapter is where I'm at.
/r/askMRP07/10/18 05:33 AM
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Some of you noobs, I just don't know where your head is at. No sex for the rest of the year? If that were even an option, I'd be visiting some attorneys. Luckily she didn't like the idea and has been feeding me I miss you today so there's some life. It's barely hanging but it's there. My head is still in the blue pill mindset. Not enough lifting and STFU. Too much talking and not enough doing. Changing that.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 09:43 PM
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Congruence is great, but the thing about being a man is you can change your mind, take what you want, and do what you want without explanation. So much this. Need to internalize that more.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 09:41 PM
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I'll need to find one. I do jiujitsu but there's like 4 females and we're usually trying to choke one another out.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 09:40 PM
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That'll be the book I need to read asap. Thanks.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 09:32 PM
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Yeah just need to dial back in. STFU and lift is all I need to do for now.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 09:31 PM
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Just what in the fuck are you reading ? NMMNG Are you lifting ? Just got back to it. Guess I need to do that and STFU for a few months. Back to level 1. Just why in the fuck are you operating her "Frame" Because my frame is made of hay right now. I need to build it. To do that I'll start with lifting. You lack "mission" or "vision" I agree. I'll go back through 16 Commandments of Poon. Been a while and I lost sight of that.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 04:18 PM
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You are missing that boat in my opinion. I really am. I'm at the point that I know the answer but it's still going over my head and I'm still wondering why it's going over my head. I'm still trying to dodge bullets. I haven't gotten to the point where I don't need to.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 02:49 PM
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Got it. Since I'm already in the hole. Might as well stick it out and not back track.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 02:43 PM
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Don't know. Wasn't sure if the moratorium was meant to also not game her but pretty sure you're suppose to always be gaming. Yes/no answer? No.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 02:39 PM
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So best course of action would be to just STFU....and lift.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 02:37 PM
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Thought it would be helpful to us both. Me to uncover my covert contracts. See where I'm failing. Not walk on egg shells or fear of rocking the boat. Her feel less pressure to bad duty sex to keep me around. Eliminate that past butt hurt that I have displayed.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 02:36 PM
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God damn it. Well already placed that on the table for the month. Guess I'll just focus on what I can unfuck.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 02:33 PM
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Fuck. That makes better sense.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 02:31 PM
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I actually meant it. I didn't flat out say no sex but I told her that we won't have sex so that we can break that association of me getting mad in the past to her saying no. She has the fear that I'll cheat but it's not dread. I fucked that up. It became fear when I ramboed before. u/ReddJive it doesn't makes it better but maybe shines some light? Either way I was a faggot for posting this in the first place.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 02:28 PM
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Previous ramboing came back to bite me. My fault. You're right I'm thinking too much. Just gonna do.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 02:22 PM
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Also the link you posted is that from r/TheRedPill cause I can't seem to get to it. Maybe on the desktop I can. Mobile it blocks it.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 02:19 PM
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This has been the problem with the conflicting info. I thought the idea of sex moratorium was to help break and uncover covert contracts. Allow me to not have the "but she won't fuck me if I don't X" mindset. The FMOFU was a couple months ago. The SM exercise was recent. This shit gets frustrating. I'm just gonna lift, STFU, game, and lead. That's all I need to do right now. I'm still early in all this.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 02:13 PM
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You may be right. I may deserve to be alone.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 01:58 PM
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Thanks I'll keep that in mind.
/r/askMRP06/10/18 01:49 PM
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Same position. Knowing what I know now there's only one person to blame. Me. I didn't vet my wife. My fault. MRP warned me of the red flags. I ignored them. Also, my fault. At the same time. Your wife is a reflection of you. It's a fucking conundrum. No one is stopping you from walking out. However, going through the process isn't a bad idea. End of the day. You can turn around and go back to the way things were or start doing something about it. I needed to remind myself of this today. There is…
/r/askMRP06/10/18 07:55 AM
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MRP told me don't get married. I got married. Guess where I am 5 years later. Just a thought.
/r/askMRP24/09/18 12:43 AM
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What are your stats?
/r/askMRP23/09/18 06:11 PM
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That's what I thought. I asked my doctor and she said if there were no signs she wasn't concerned. There's no signs but I should go back and get it tested.
/r/askMRP22/09/18 03:00 PM
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Just train if you want to. Don't if you don't want to. My wife complains about it but I do it anyway. She makes little comments all the time. Don't care I go train. Rarely do I decide I'm gonna skip training to stay home. Usually if I do it's cause I'm burned out from work or something doesn't feel right on a muscle. 2 groin pulls and I learned me lesson. Stop when it's kinda sore. Or I genuinely want to spend my evening with my wife and son. 3 nights a week is good. I wish I could go to more 6a…
/r/askMRP22/09/18 07:26 AM
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Will do.
/r/askMRP22/09/18 03:22 AM
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Should have bolded it I suppose. Back to what you commented about red pill. I saw it a couple years back how bad rambo can be. I ramboed then went back to blue pill ways. I'll STFU more. Lift heavy things. Build my frame. Continue my jiujitsu training. Climb my career ladder. Lead my family. There's no going back. I can't.
/r/askMRP22/09/18 03:21 AM
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Thanks. Yeah right now my focus is losing the weight but about to do more strength and conditioning training to prepare for next year jiujitsu tournaments. Haven't competed I guess years but want to train with that in mind to supplement mat time.
/r/askMRP21/09/18 08:32 PM
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She's a nurse as well but no she doesn't participate along side. She supported me when I thought I couldn't make it through paramedic or nursing school. I guess I should have said my career is part of my mission/legacy. Not my sole mission. She participates in the other aspect of raising my legacy, as you put it. She's not a SAHM but works part time so she can be home more with him. I wouldn't say she is enabling me about my career goal but she's definitely behind me doing it. She's attaching he…
/r/askMRP21/09/18 08:30 PM
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No. On and off since 2010. Finally close to purple belt. Right? I mean it's a great martial art and effective.
/r/askMRP21/09/18 06:30 PM
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Was working on RPT and increasing weight each week. No idea what my max weight is. Just gonna continue to lift starting Monday.
/r/askMRP21/09/18 06:23 PM
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So I retract what I said and disagree with you. My career is part of my mission. My wife is behind me and is following me on my path to become a nurse practitioner because it's not a cake walk. It's an additional 3 years of training and time away from my family. Sure it comes with perks. Is it attractive maybe not to you and doesn't matter if it is to her. Working in finance is a career. Healthcare you get shit on, spit on, and expected to perform 100% each time. My mission is to learn all I can…
/r/askMRP21/09/18 06:22 PM
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Maybe I am over thinking this but why does my mission have to be an attractive mission to my wife? If my mission is for me.
/r/askMRP21/09/18 05:22 PM
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"She complained on our anniversary" into "She had fun." What the heck? You're judging your success by how much fun she has now? No just mentioned that I lead her into something I had wanted to do. She complained and followed but ended up having fun. No not judging how much fun she has just trying to live life instead of the standardized work, eat, and sleep. Isn't part of being attractive is to "be fun" but I do see what you're saying by doing fun things together I'm still in her frame and appro…
/r/askMRP21/09/18 03:08 PM
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Your wife: Well, he has a few bjj competitions that are fun to watch. Oh wait, does she really even go to those? She's seen me train twice now in the on and off years that I've been practicing. She doesn't know what's going on usually but seems like I was doing good. I wasn't but she doesn'tneed to know that. I told her we are going out of town in January for a tournament and to let her friend who moved there recently, who also recently had a baby, to let her know so we can coordinate to get tog…
/r/askMRP21/09/18 02:19 PM
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The reason there are 12 levels of dread is so that you don't jump from 0 to 12 overnight. Yeah didn't seem to comprehend that before. I'm starting to understand but not :getting it". One day I hope to get it one day. For now I am staying the course. Past 4 months have been filled with ups and downs. You are the captain of the ship. This I get now. It is my ship. My lead. Not my way or the highway because FO can make a better suggestion and go with it but majority of the decisions are on me
/r/askMRP21/09/18 02:03 PM
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Second: you don’t sound fun. Add something fun into your work, lift, bjj routine. Get friends. Gun range and bowling with friends? Also thanks for the input on level 4 and flirting.
/r/askMRP21/09/18 01:40 PM
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Good FR. Posts like these help me reset and review what I'm doing wrong and continue to fix my dumbass. Wasted 9 years with the blue pill weakness in my relationship and all my years in my teens. Just turned 29 so I'm gonna plow forward into 30. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/18 12:46 PM
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also i fucking hate how some ppl dish out random insults to OPs whenever they post. if it”s targetted at specific issues i get it, but general insults are just annoying as hell. Because most questions are low quality and just require lift and side bar answer. There's few questions that I haven't just started searching with the search option or rereading some of the side bar material to find the answer myself. There's no spoon feeding. Also, the vets will just call you a bitch, tell you to fuck o…
/r/askMRP16/09/18 12:36 AM
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It's long but good. Could mostly look at the appendix for reference of the strategies. Fogging, broken record, etc. Gonna give it another listen on my drives starting this week.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/18 06:55 PM
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When I Say No I Feel Guilty Married Man Sex Life Primer
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/18 06:45 PM
1

You may be right.
/r/askMRP14/09/18 11:09 AM
1

Same to you.
/r/askMRP06/09/18 07:33 PM
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Roommate situation not a marriage anymore. Also barely read after 4 years of no sex. There's gotta be a limit. Get your lifts up and physical aspect in check. We both need to do that.
/r/askMRP06/09/18 07:20 PM
1

Texas weather. I'm sure it'll be cold for a day some time. Other than that probably hot then not as hot. I like the outing idea. Gonna try that.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/18 06:39 PM
1

Totally agree and movie night isn't my go to anymore. Just using it this time since we haven't sat down in a few months to watch a movie.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/18 01:40 PM
1

But she missed Deadpool 2. Is one movie night really an end all be all? I don't think a one time movie date at home is going to kill the relationship. I'll add in something else for a twist. Hell, thinking in-the-box is likely half the reason you're posting to this homo-haven in the first place Fair point. Will do more action things as Pook puts it.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/18 11:11 PM
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Who noticed? Half awake. I noticed. It wasn't the starfish-get-it-over-with sex. Cool. So do something different. What that means to you, I don't know. But do it. Different. Unique. Original. You get the point. We're doing the we want to relax without the little vampire needing us for a few hours and want to save some money this month. Gonna look at other things soon. Planning on a gun range and dinner night soon. Do more than read. Yup. Now it's just reference material.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/18 10:52 PM
1

Decided to rework my map and reread everything that I didn't internalize. So this is basically OYS 2.0 #3 Background Both 28. Married 5 years now. Together total of 9. IV drip sex but slowly improving. Read and reread NMMNG and MMSL. Reading Pook. Finished MAP wrote out my red areas that I'm going to focus on this month and next. Just continuing my MAP following 31 DTM September of Success. Also started Own Your Day, Own Your Life by Aubrey Marcus during my commutes to work. Pretty good so far. …
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/18 10:06 PM
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Don't do it.
/r/askMRP29/08/18 05:51 PM
1

Way to go, Rambo. Stop doing this. Fix yourself instead of telling her anything. Acta, non verba Went along the tip from MMSL figured I had never tried that so gave it a shot Here's a post that may motivate you to lose the weight and get the life and sex you want. I wouldn't say I wasn't motivated. When I started all this in May I was 185 and dropped to 164. Now I gotta dial into the nutrition. Next 15-20 pounds are gonna be the hardest but I can do this. Currently lowest weight I've been at so …
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/18 10:29 PM
1

Focus on yourself. Focus on losing weight and gaining muscle. Focus on reading. Focus on being a father. Focus on being a man of quality. Got it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/18 04:29 PM
1

So don't do anything?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/18 04:02 PM
1

How do you see the sidebar on the new reddit layout? Just visit old reddit. There's option to change back on your screen name drop down menu. What would you recommend I read immediately next? Married Man Sex Life and Saving a Low Sex Marriage by Blue Pill Professor The latter gives you a map with dread.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/18 02:31 PM
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Decided to rework my map and reread everything that I didn't internalize. So this is basically OYS 2.0 #2 Background Both 28. Married 5 years now. Together total of 9. IV drip sex. I've always been fat and still fat. She's fat. Says she wants work on it. Read and reread NMMNG and MMSL. Reading Pook. Finished MAP wrote out my red areas that I'm going to focus on this month and next. August and September I am following dread level 1 and 2 lift and pass shit tests. Although not really throwing them…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/18 02:01 PM
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r/theredpill Probably should just go there. Next this girl and have fun. Also, if she's not serious about weight now, do you honestly believe she would do that later?
/r/askMRP28/08/18 02:09 AM
3

Fuck yeah.
/r/askMRP25/08/18 03:37 AM
2

An option would be to rest it and ice it for a week then see how you feel. Like any injury your best bet is to rest it. Doesn't mean don't workout just avoid some exercises. https://www.livestrong.com/article/524600-can-you-still-work-out-if-you-have-tennis-elbow/
/r/askMRP22/08/18 09:18 PM
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I've been doing IF without the calorie tracking, lazy IF. Now I'm back on track and counting everything. Gonna allow myself 1 refeed/cheat meal a week. I'm aiming at getting to my goal weight 145-150lbs then going into maintenance mode as long as I'm at the BF% I want. Gonna see how it goes. Tried low carb/keto. I fall out too easily so I said fuck it and went with the standard 30P/30F/40C.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/18 09:27 PM
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"That's too bad, because I sure am!" I like this response. Needy and unattractive, same as asking for a blowjob. Next time, just get her worked up and then stick it in her face and tell her to suck it. Much more dominant and what I'm looking to improve. Good point. Are you tracking your calories in MyFitnessPal? "Eating better" is pretty vague, my guess is you're eating more calories than you think you are. That's exactly what I'm doing. 1800-2000 calories 30% Protein, 30% Fat and 40% Carbs. Bas…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/18 07:11 PM
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Decided to rework my map and reread everything that I didn't internalize. So this is basically OYS 2.0 #1 Background Both 28. Married 5 years now. Together total of 9. IV drip sex. I've always been fat and still fat. She's fat. Says she wants work on it. Read and reread NMMNG and MMSL. Reading MAP and Pook. Physical 164lbs ~22%bf 5'5" Latest lifts in lbs: Bench 160x6, Squat 205x8, Deadlift 205x8, OHP 115x5, barbell row 125x6 Ended up pausing lifting until my power rack arrives. Met no resistance…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/18 04:17 PM
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Nice I'm on the slow loss now about 1-1.5lbs a week. Goal is to hit 145 by the end of the year then go from there. Good luck with the bulk.
/r/askMRP18/08/18 02:26 PM
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I'll give it a shot on OHP if I stall today. Stalled at 115lbsx5. Been doing RPT and can't get the 6th rep to go on to 120lbs.
/r/askMRP18/08/18 10:01 AM
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All good options another can be switching from bench to dumbbells for 4-6 weeks. I've been using reverse pyramid training (RPT) currently at 160lbsx6 reps on my last workout and just planning to keep going up on the weight till I stalls. I have also stalled on OHP and tried deloading from my working set to get back up. Might try some of the tips here as well. Was stuck at 115lbsx5 reps. Overload training seems to be a good option but you could try RPT as well. Leangains should have some info.
/r/askMRP18/08/18 09:58 AM
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Overload training for bench, right?
/r/askMRP18/08/18 09:51 AM
1

That sounds about right if you're wanting to lose steady and maintain muscle mass. I'm no expert but what's working for me is IF/OMAD and starting to track everything I eat. Goal is to lose 1.5-2lbs per week with a goal of 145lbs and 10-12%bf. Also, lifting 3 times per week with a progressive program.
/r/askMRP16/08/18 06:39 PM
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Everyone else addressed your main post so I'll address this because I didn't see anyone had. What in the actual fuck are you doing in the gym? Are you having fuckarounditis? We're the close to the same height 5'5" but I'm at 164lbs 22%bf so pretty close in stats. Did you just start lifting? Are those 1RMs? Are you following something structured? Tracking your lifts? Increasing weight each workout and setting goals? Edit: injury and looking into PT. Got it now.
/r/askMRP16/08/18 03:35 PM
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Great post. 5th year married this year and feels like I'm on the right course. Refreshed and following my plan again. We're having fun. Still going out for dinner for our anniversary but I added something for the first time in our marriage. Fun. Escape room. Might send tingles. Might not. Gonna be fun either way. Busting outta that room before the serial killer gets us so we can enjoy some brick oven pizza that isn't a fast food chain. Edit: I shouldn't comment at 3am. I can't spell
/r/askMRP11/08/18 12:33 PM
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Damn. Needed to hear this myself. Back to the sidebar for me.
/r/askMRP01/08/18 02:19 PM
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Stop being a faggot. You can't control other people. You can only control yourself. Based on your account no one can base anything because there's no history and it sounds like you haven't even glimpsed at the side bar.
/r/askMRP29/07/18 06:16 AM
1

Pook came to mind. and the Pook slapped the young man
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/18 08:32 PM
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Comparing my 1 success now to my others just clicked with what you said and what I did different. Son of a bitch... I didn't game her at all really during the day. Thanks. I'll just have fun today. Tired or not Your kid is 2 months, not much to do there besides keeping him fed and dry. Sleep has been his issue he fights it but we are getting him on a better routine and it seems like it's improving. Initiate at other times of the day besides bedtime. Yup. 3 failures at bed time 1 success midday o…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/18 12:30 PM
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Background Me, 28 y/o, wife 28 y/o. New Dad. IV drip sex life in the past few years. Physical 5'5'' 168.5 lbs about 23-25% BF. Low end navy method and high end fitbit scale. Still lifting 3-4 days a week for the past 6 weeks. Weight is increasing. Started getting more and more compliments from women I know at work. One said, I look great. That's a new phrasing for me. Reading Previously read: MMSL and NMMNG. Should reread NMMNG. Currently reading: 31 Days to Masculinity and WISIFG Marriage She's…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/18 09:23 AM
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Upping the alpha but still having some beta/nice guy qualities. Not Mr. Nice Guy with covert contracts and whining. Kay says not to just shut then down. You may alpha up but eventually itll burn her out. That's my understanding. I'm not attractive enough to full on alpha but I can ramp it up and slowly withdraw the beta tendencies as I up the dread. At least that's my understanding.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/18 12:17 PM
1

So explode the weight up?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/18 02:11 PM
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Manners. I appreciate the detailed advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/18 11:09 AM
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Oh yeah I'm familiar. Still remember from when I did powerlifting. However, things change and get forgotten so I shoot video and send it to a coworker who used to be a personal trainer and he's been giving me tips and correcting my form.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/18 11:08 AM
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Background Me, 28 y/o, wife 28 y/o. Together for almost 9 years and married almost 5 of those. New Dad. IV drip sex life in the past few years. Sometimes it's better than others. Lacks the variety and enthusiasm. That's my fault. Not attractive working on being attractive. Physical 5'5'' 168.5 lbs about 23-25% BF. Low end navy method and high end fitbit scale. Gonna keep working till I'm at my goal of less than 15%. Short term is to be less than 20%. Been lifting now for about 4 weeks and loving…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/18 10:34 AM
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and you've made no effort to do anything about it Yeah I need to work on doing something about it
/r/askMRP27/06/18 09:00 PM
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I've lost 15 pounds. She hasn't gotten back to prepregnancy weight. I've started to make more money than her. I've started getting regular hair cuts, styling it and grooming my beard. Started dressing better. Not sure I know she has always had this fear that I would cheat. So I've had that going at least?
/r/askMRP27/06/18 09:00 PM
1

That's what I thought. That or comfort test.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 08:56 PM
1

I was wondering that too but felt like comfort because she was also saying she felt stressed and depressed.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 08:56 PM
1

My oneitis is strong. I'm working on breaking it but its definitely a process.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 06:40 PM
1

Work on yourself. Be fun to be around. Be happy to see her. Own your shit. Keep changing the inside and the outside changes to reflect that, one way or another. True true.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 06:39 PM
1

Makes sense. Based on her mood today it's like yesterday didn't happen.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 06:38 PM
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This was shared with me since I'm failing at it currently. Ramboing when I think I'm not ramboing. I've got a lot of work to do.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 01:34 PM
1

Yup. It was.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 12:18 PM
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I'll focus on STFU this next month. I've gotten into lifting at least. Just gotta learn not to be dragged into her frame and STFU more. Way more.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 12:18 PM
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No. That's why I'm here. I'm trying to better myself. I've been a lazy fat beta piece of shit my whole life. Sick of it.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 12:17 PM
1

Yeah. I just didn't think STFU was the right route at the time. Thought she was seeking comfort.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 12:15 PM
1

I agree.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 12:14 PM
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I think I'm realizing today that we have bigger problems if she's mentioning separation for me being a jerk. I don't raise my voice. I dont lay my hands on her.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 12:14 PM
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Thanks for that post. I guess I wasn't doing it like I thought.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 12:12 PM
3

Yeah realizing it now.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 12:11 PM
3

Agreed MCT. I know I fell apart once she included the idea of divorce and separation from my son.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 04:15 AM
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Yeah. Include my son and I can't keep it together. Couldn't imagine the divorce type visits. Including someone else trying to take my place boils my blood.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 04:14 AM
1

There's a section in MMSL about this. Maybe read it and do some thinking. Literally the first time in 7 years I've felt like this. Your gut is usually right and if this is out of character something is up. Had the same occurrence 12 years ago when an ex had cheated on me. Yup beta bucks then trying to finally break that shit.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 09:03 PM
2

I bought mine from a neighbor for $100 bucks. We're part of a neighborhood website called NextDoor and I simply posted asking if anyone had a weight set that was just gathering dust. Bench and squat combo exactly like this Total weight 275 with the bar. At my parents I have additional plates of I need them. It's an older unit. Arms turn around for squat and OHP. As mentioned by someone else the weights do start going up. I'm doing greyskull and this week I should be at 135 on squat after 3 weeks…
/r/askMRP25/06/18 01:20 PM
3

Oh you thought that too.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 12:57 AM
1

4 years is 3 years too long.
/r/askMRP24/06/18 03:06 PM
1

Calling it too soon.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 04:12 PM
1

I mean navy method and fitbit scale measured 26 and 27%. Regardless I want to be 15% or less.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 04:10 PM
1

Umph. Can't even answer that.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 03:21 PM
1

Well said.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 02:21 PM
1

Going back through MMSL then I'll go through Book of Pook. I had started it but didn't finish it. Thanks.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 01:31 PM
1

Made today a active day with jiujitsu. That usually clears my head and helps me unfuck my whirlwind of panic thoughts. Gonna just follow what Personal Training Coach app says to add. Lift 3 days a week. Jiu jitsu 2 days a week. Slow and steady. That's the plan. I was a fucked mess last night. I reset with some sleep. Early morning training and ready to take on today.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 01:30 PM
1

I appreciate the constructive feedback. Today is a new day and I'm definitely going to Reset and get on with it.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 12:14 PM
1

That's fair.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 12:12 PM
1

Regardless, I have my goals and know where I want to be.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 10:27 AM
1

Lol 27%
/r/askMRP21/06/18 10:22 AM
1

Then having a kid probably wasn't the best idea Would you change anything about having your daughter? Cause I wouldn't change anything about having had my son. You're at the beginning of a long process, but at least you're in the game. I consider you lucky. Realizing that now. Getting back to work.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 10:17 AM
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I'm not sure the how relevant that is when it doesn't matter if it's 25 or 30%. I have work to do either way.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 10:02 AM
1

I already don't drink except maybe 3 times a year. So that's not the problem.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 06:56 AM
1

Wasn't planning on it. This is a linear progression program that you add weight to each workout in increments of 5lbs-10lbs. I'm gonna add more tomorrow. They've been too easy and only the AMRAP at the end gives me issues.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 06:56 AM
1

Doing Greyskull Phraks variation Bench 2x5, 1x30 - 80lbs Barbell row 2x5, 1x15 80lbs Deadlift 1x20 105lbs OHP 2x5, 1x16 65lbs Squat 2x5, 1x22 95lbs I only started lifting last week and following this program last week. Weight feels way too light and considering increasing it more.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 06:46 AM
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According to the personal training coach app these are my projected 1RM based on the 5 workouts I've done. Might test them out tomorrow just to see. Barbell row 120lbs Bench 160lbs Deadlift 175lbs OHP 100lbs Squat 165lbs
/r/askMRP21/06/18 06:31 AM
1

That's a good way to look at. I'll keep that mindset.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 06:27 AM
1

Why do you doubt it? Thinking more? Less? I have a buddy that says he thinks it's less. I got it from the Fitbit scale. Need to get calipers and measure that way. Haven't tested my 1RM yet. Guess I can give it a shot tomorrow.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 06:23 AM
5

Good analogy with the IV. 10-4 You came across loud and clear.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 03:18 AM
0

Going to the liquor store tomorrow.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 03:11 AM
1

Tomorrow is another day. Wipe the slate clean. Start again. I agree. Gonna need to internalize that. Despite your setbacks you did what 90% of the men in your position dont bother doing. What's that.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 01:54 AM
1

I know. I know.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 01:39 AM
1

Luckily I stopped porn and compulsive/chronic masturbation a little over 4 months ago because I didn't want to be that kind of man/Father for my son. Gonna rewind, reread, continue to lift. Continue to build me.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 01:30 AM
1

Dating since 2009. Married in 2013. Together 9 years. I was not clear. Don’t forget the tactics and what your goal is. Gonna reevaluate and go.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 01:21 AM
2

don’t be a Fat fuck. Basically.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 01:16 AM
2

Everything you said made sense and hit him. I got this.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 01:16 AM
1

Don't go rambo period. Got it.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 01:15 AM
1

Been just following greyskull phrak variation and following the weights. Not even sure of my 1RM. Very low I'm sure. I'll start bumping 10lbs instead of 5.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 01:15 AM
1

Well that made it click. Muscles aren't sore enough gonna need to add some extra exercises.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 01:07 AM
2

9 years total together. Not any better but not 14. Mmslp should have given you a good start, wtf happen? Need to reread. Been on TRM. Been in the anger phase about it. Gonna pause and go back through the basic shit.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 01:04 AM
1

Throwing ultimatums and women don't work. Sounds like a 1-800 overseas line inquiring about my telephone service.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 01:01 AM
1

Yup. You're right.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 12:53 AM
1

So the basic shit and don't go full autistic. Appreciate the response.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 12:51 AM
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I got whiskey and gin. I'll go with the gin.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 12:49 AM
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6 complications end of pregnancy. 6 weeks of no physical activity. She just had a baby. How can any true man who considers himself the head of his wife/household let her have a career? Because she loves what she does and is good at it? What kind of stupid shit is that? Also getting divorce raped if it ever came to that after being a SAHM is not fun.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 12:48 AM
0

We kept trying. I got limp dick. Turned off by it all.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 12:45 AM
1

Shit tests? That's when she's qualifying you to fuck. You're lucky she threw you a pity fuck tonight. At least she's trying. You should have played pussy hero 4 like you loved it. Nothing wrong with that where you are right now. Gonna get back after pussy hero 4 and take what I can. There's a new baby in the house. Her life is fucked up. Are you owning your shit and being the Oak, or are you another baby for her to take care of? Oak. Getting shit done on house work. Cleaning up. Just checking of…
/r/askMRP21/06/18 12:44 AM
1

Yup. I know I have a lot of work to do. For fucks sake, somewhere deep inside you is a more assertive person. Start acting like it. You're absolutely right.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 12:42 AM
1

Married Man Sex Life. Side bar prerequite. She does have a career and is on maternity leave at the moment.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 12:40 AM
1

She's feeding the baby and I needed to find something to do. MMSL said work the laundry so I usually do.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 12:38 AM
1

Basically. Also have you read the sidebar. Yes I'm reading and still reading.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 12:34 AM
2

Yup that too. Working on that. All of that. 28 years of faggotry and weak minded bullshit is going to take time to break. Add the 9 year relationship and 5 years of marriage that's at least 15-27 months of applying all of this and rewiring myself from being a bitch.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 12:33 AM
1

Yeah the requests have been reasonable. Just water because of breastfeeding or her phone to track where she left off with his feed. I'll give the occasional backrub with or without request because I know he can get heavy. I've experienced that myself. So far it seems just needing help and not making me her servant.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 11:05 PM
1

Yeah the requests have been bare minimum to where it would cause her pain if she reached for something because the kiddo likes to hold on for fear life on the tit if she leans forward messing with his latch. Have not read WISNIFG. It's on deck after I finish TRM.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 11:03 PM
2

OYS #3 Background Me, 28 y/o, wife 28 y/o. New Dad. IV drip sex life. Last week of wife's post partum recovery. Physical 5'5'' 170 lbs about 26% BF. I was able to get a weight set set up at my house. Started lifting. Following Greyskull Phrak's variation. Started adding accessory exercises and will do additional workouts on off days Using jiujitsu as cardio. Eating less and not overdoing it. Reading Previously read: MMSL and NMMNG. Currently reading: 31 Days to Masculinity, Low Sex Marriage by B…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/18 02:36 PM
4

Bookmarking this comment for myself as a reminder. Solid shit.
/r/askMRP18/06/18 07:57 AM
1

Recieved. Yeah coconut spa was a good play. I should have started at that time what I am doing now but was busy. I'm ready to get my shit together. Estimating 15 months as long as I'm applying eveything. August makes 5 years married. It'll take a while before I break the oneitis. Trying to get in the mindset of building my ship and allowing her to come along for the ride or not. This last time was just her ankle hurting and she was feeding the baby. No talking but I'll be weary of future shit te…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/18 08:25 PM
1

Nice guy beta. Not for foreplay. Ankle issue and back pain recently from sitting wrong while breast feeding. I've used the massage parlor move that I saw here. That involved a massage table, oil, up front that we will be fucking. Used it a couple times. Have gotten better about identifying my covert contracts. That's why I haven't really thought much about the massage because I do do them on occasion but never expect anything. However, I do see what you mean about it being a sub type thing. For …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/18 06:44 PM
1

I do like fun.
/r/askMRP13/06/18 04:19 PM
1

I thought I wasn't supposed to just shut off the beta. Obviously I have the beta comfort but I need to improve the alpha traits. Right? Just going off of the readings in MMSL. Not going full alpha but improving the alpha traits. That was my understanding. May just need to reread that section.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/18 04:12 PM
1

I'll give you $3.50. Fair enough though. I'll cut the shit.
/r/askMRP13/06/18 11:53 AM
1

Thanks for the additional suggestion too.
/r/askMRP13/06/18 11:48 AM
1

Thanks.
/r/askMRP13/06/18 11:47 AM
3

1.5 hours total. 45 minutes to work and 45 minutes home.
/r/askMRP13/06/18 11:46 AM
1

But if you had to pick one to suggest to a 1-2 week old newbie.
/r/askMRP13/06/18 09:44 AM
1

God Damn it
/r/askMRP13/06/18 09:41 AM
1

She negotiated. I didn't. I just played a little. Wasn't shooting for anything or wanting anything. Foot rub. Back rub whatever. I do them because it's something she likes and I'm too early to ramp from DL1 and 2 to rambo.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/18 02:14 AM
2

You misread. I didn't barter for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/18 11:08 PM
2

what did she do to earn a kiss from you??? She seems nice.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/18 09:38 PM
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OYS #2 Background Me, 28 y/o, wife 28 y/o. New Dad. IV drip sex life. 5th week of 6 for wife's postpartum recovery. Haven't had sex since April. Counting this as a sex moratorium. Physical 5'5'' 173 lbs about 27% BF. Goal was to get a Olympic barbell weight set set up in my backyard by today. Today is not over and picking up the set tonight. Will start lifting tonight. My wife has seen me working out and has decided she wanted to start exercising. Found a Nordiktrack on NextDoor for $50 that she…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/18 01:41 PM
1

Just a couple things. Covert contracts for sure. Cutting that out. I'll likely reread again to refresh.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 03:39 AM
1

Good to know. Thanks Professor. Also reading your book. Taking it slow and starting with dread level 1 and 2 the first 2 months. Edit: also went through your podcasts. Good stuff sir.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 02:10 AM
6

I'm new to this but...bitch has got to go. Not married? Not engaged? You said highest SMV ever? Your house? It's like God damn Christmas in June.
/r/askMRP10/06/18 05:59 AM
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If you haven't yet. BluePillProfessor has 19 videos on YouTube. I listened to them on my way to work and home over a few days. They average about 15 minutes each but he covered the MRP basics.
/r/askMRP10/06/18 04:35 AM
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Kinda took a sex moratorium since early April before MRP. May be the reason I came back. Had the realization that I wanted to be a better version of myself and nofap alone was not going to do.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 04:47 PM
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God damn it. Goals.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/18 08:20 AM
1

I remember this app now. Thanks.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 04:15 AM
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I have. Day 3. Taking it slow. Learning and applying.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 01:59 AM
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That's good to know.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 06:16 AM
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Much appreciated.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 06:11 AM
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Shit I forgot about Greyskull. I'll set up a plan. Thanks for the reminder.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 06:03 AM
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Fair point.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 06:02 AM
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Makes the decision much easier.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 05:51 AM
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I'll consider it later on for sure. For this month I'm just taking /u/johneyapocalypse advice and just lifting. Not thinking about the details. Found what I'm gonna do and getting after it today.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 05:50 AM
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I did power lifting in high school but that was 10 years ago. SS5x5 just caught my attention cause it was simple and straight forward but I was going to test my lifts and see where I was at and use the app to go from there. Mostly any lifting in the past few years is from any beachbody program but dumbbells. Again just need to put the fork down and eat less in order to get better results.
/r/askMRP08/06/18 05:28 AM
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Noted. I will do that.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 02:31 AM
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Thanks for answering my question. I want to commit. Just know to go slow. Not trying to nuke anything yet.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 02:29 AM
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Iron sharpens iron. What I have been doing before was obviously not working. Might as well get my teeth kicked in and get better.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 01:21 AM
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Basically.
/r/askMRP06/06/18 11:37 PM
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Oh ok. Well he has my $10 bucks already so I'll read all I can.
/r/askMRP06/06/18 11:31 PM
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Yeah it's a marathon. That's how I discovered the book through that post. Should have reread the post.
/r/askMRP06/06/18 11:28 PM
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Saw that. What's the cliffsnotes version of all that.
/r/askMRP06/06/18 10:22 PM
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Good points. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/18 09:17 PM
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OYS #1 Background Me, 28 y/o, wife 28 y/o. Just had our first child. It's a boy. Both work as nurses. I've been here before but never read completely and absorbed the material/information. I'll admit I became complacent and ok with the IV drip starfish sex. Getting pregnant sex was fun for a while and whatever after effect of that was. Also, had the nice guy addiction to porn for years and hiding away to jerk off. I failed myself but I didn't want to have an addiction with a new kid on the way. …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/18 07:53 AM
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I'll work on trusting my gut because that was my initial thought. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/18 12:51 AM
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New here but a 3rd stripe blue belt. A black belt is only a white belt that didn't quit. I'm 5'5ish. Jiu jitsu was made to use your opponent's weight and strength against them. Like OP said tape is your best friend. I recently started taping my finger joints, ankles, toes, and basically any other joint that bothers me.
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