So I’ll try to keep this as short as possible.

I wasn’t married to her but we were together for 2-3 years. Initially she was the one who chased me and got clingy 24/7 till I started developing feelings and attachment with her. I remember her always saying that if I don’t marry her then she won’t marry anyone else. I wasn’t that into her and I even told her to see other men.

Long story short I fell in love and we were basically almost husband and wife considering how close we were. In the end we had a lot of fights and most of the time it was my fault because of work related stress and I also started seeing other girls. She probably caught on and starts becoming less available until one day she tells me she loves me but is not in love with me.

She wanted to stay friends but I didn’t want that because it would be hard to be in her life and her not to love me at the same time because I was devastated. She did try to keep in contact for few months and I did ask her to continue our relationship but she just wanted to be friends so I just cut her off by blocking her everywhere. I thought this way I could move on eventually.

It’s been over 3 years now, I still can’t move on. I’ve met countless women, even been engaged for a year and then ended it because I am still in love with my ex.. I’m seeing someone again who is putting in all the effort and I’m also seeing other women on the side but I just can’t get over my ex and no matter how many women I see I just can’t feel the same with them, it’s like a curse.

I remember back when there was r/theredpill which had a side bar about people with one it is but I can’t seem to find that here.

I’ve talking to people about this and also gone through Google, YouTube and etc. but I can’t find the right resources..

I just need to know how to move on and get over someone so I can be with someone again.. I want to fall in love again or atleast like someone again.

I am an attractive guy I would say with a powerful career, I work out too and have high social value.