I took the pill six months ago. I have read the sidebar and NMMNG, this is my question: should I require vaginal sex from my wife?

Background: I love my wife, I have made progress with Agree and Amplify, and making myself my point of reference. We have good sexual energy, and I will rarely be denied. From early on, my wife had trouble with vaginal intercourse. Not matter how aroused she was, it still hurt. So now, she will give me a handjob or blowjob when I initiate (2-3 times a week) but we haven’t actually had sex in about six months.

Should I continue to push for sex (doctors visits/medical intervention etc)? Has anyone else had this problem?

I haven’t asked others about this before, and am keen to get some feedback from you.

Any advice appreciated.