If any of you are married to an alpha widow who settled down how did you overcome knowing she's had Chad in her past? For the alpha widows, how did you forget you've had better?

For me, talking about my amazing past sexual experiences really ruins a potential relationship. But I'm in my 30s and none of the sex I've had with guys my age even comes close to how it is with guys in their 20s.

How do I overcome the amazing sex and settle?