married 10 years, 3 kids. im 36, wife 30 yo . always have lifted since high school. working through side bar. currently reading praxeology.

pretty constant shit tests and comfort tests from wife. have learned alot on dealing with these. i use AA/ fogging or plain old STFU.

wife does alot around the house cooking cleaning etc , however i notice she will compliance test if she FEELS she is doing more work. I do my fair share around the house and lead by example for myself and my own standards. back to the compliance test, if its a reasonable request i'll do it. is this unattractive behaviour on my end?

Also, when we go away with no kids for a few nights or whatever, she has been fucking my brains out literally and then we come home and it dried up for almost 2 weeks.

can any of you explain why this is happening?