I simply cannot stand it. Everybody I know gets a date or gets laid as easy as snapping their fingers, while I'm staying here rotting away and wondering when I'll lose my virginity and being finally loved at the age of 28. I've come to a point where I hate feeling attraction (or falling) for a woman because I know I'll get disappointed since I'm not enough and never will be enough for them.

It's not that I don't feel manly enough because of my inability to attract women or my virginity, it's just that relationships and sex are considered something so normal that I feel like alienated due to my inabilty to get them. And I want to feel loved and desired in general.

I did have some short flings and even a relationship (which only lasted for a couple of months) but I was never considered enough to get laid with them or to continue a serious relationship.

Please help me. I just need some comfort for my soul.