Men we are nutures ourselves but in different ways. We provide but we barely give ourselves this same nuturing. A lot of the time we're fine with the minimum. So unless we have someone else to provide for we don't push ourselves. So for the next 9 months as a duty to yourself i want you to imagine that you have a child on the way. Manage your income as if you were saving for a child to be born. Work as if a child is on the way. Save that money invest it. Work the overtime if you aren't already. Pick up a 2nd job. when you're tired and ask yourself why am i doing this say to yourself o yea i have a child on the way. And at the end of the 9 months see what you have. You deserve that same nuturing for yourself. How much will you have saved? What are you going to do with it? Are you gonna continue to nurture yourself like you do others after the 9 months or end the project. Just an experiment that can change the way you think.