One feminist user just wrote this before it got banned for insulting other users.

"Toxic masculinity is masculinity that is just toxic. If a woman perpretrates those ideas that's toxic masculinity. Not fuckin femininity because the ideas don't change no matter who says it. Anyone who thinks that "men can defend against women" is clearly perpetrating toxic masculinity for that reason."

So I ask why can't I say

"Toxic femininity is femininity that is just toxic. If a man perpretrates those ideas that's toxic femininity. Not fuckin masculinity because the ideas don't change no matter who says it. Anyone who thinks that "men can defend against women" is clearly perpetrating toxic femininity for that reason?"

If you define masculinity however you want, of course if a man or a woman does something you hate, you will always blame masculinity.

However, I reject their definitions and their word game. This is the thing. They are NPCs, so they don't understand the world does not revolve around them. When they make a definition and demonize masculinity, they assume everyone Should follow that definition with no exceptions.

Many many women believe men can defend against women and that was the main attitude and belief among women. If that's the case, why can't I call it toxic femininity? Why can't I define toxic femininity as females' toxic mindset and behaviors?

Why can't I say a man punching other men to impress a woman is also toxic femininity because "the idea doesn't change no matter who does that?" Why can't I define femininity as such?

Feminists call traditional women "ingrained," while they call traditional men "toxic." They define masculinity with all the bad things (the definition created by them is also always very vague because they should blame all men's and women's bad behaviors on masculinity) while they don't with femininity.

They could have named that "toxic femininity." Many women do share it, so if I reverse their claim just likewhat I wrote above, then why can't I also say all the bad men's behaviors are all toxic femininity?

They are playing with words. Indoctrination is their weapon. Gynocentric manipulation is their weapon. We need to reject their definitions and hate.