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Abused men ‘afraid to seek help’

warmy1818

August 9, 2023
15 upvotes
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https://timesofmalta.com/articles/view/abused-men-afraid-to-seek-help.693346

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Title Abused men ‘afraid to seek help’
Author

warmy1818

Upvotes 15
Comments 5
Date August 9, 2023 11:50 AM UTC
(2 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/15md2az/abused_men_afraid_to_seek_help/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/MensRights/abused-men-afraid-to-seek-help.1228031
https://theredarchive.com/post/1228031
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Comments

[–]WeEatBabies 12 points13 points14 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Well, yes, if you call the cops, the feminist Duluth Model says they gotta arrests you!

[–]Current_Finding_4066 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

True. Maybe men know why they cannot call for help.

I heard that most services treat men only as perpetrators and revictimize the ones who try to get help.

[–]CrowMagpie 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

The way my sister treated me would've been emotional abuse if a boy had done the same to a girl.

It wasn't that I was afraid to seek help; it was that after a lifetime of males being demonized, after only ever seeing male perps and female victims (except, occasionally, an older female perp raising a victim), it didn't occur to me until I was in my 40s to even see it as abusive.

[–]Current_Finding_4066 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

My sister has done some terrible stuff to me. And it is abuse without a doubt, but try getting some sympathy. And I understand why you mean, you make excuses for your family. Excuses you would never make for anyone else.

[–]CrowMagpie 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That sucks. I find very few people who sympathize with me - but not none.

I never made excuses for her either; I knew she was horrible, I just never realized how bad it was.

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